Is sex more special as you grow older?

When I was younger and lost my virginity (to someone I loved at the time) I wasn't really thinking about the future too much. I saw it as fun and a great way to bond.

Now, however, I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't see a future with. I like to take my time with it.

Is this normal as you grow older?

Reply 1

Ciel.

21

Original post by Anonymous

When I was younger and lost my virginity (to someone I loved at the time) I wasn't really thinking about the future too much. I saw it as fun and a great way to bond.

Now, however, I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't see a future with. I like to take my time with it.

Is this normal as you grow older?

idk, can't relate. i don't see it as anything special, despite being in my twenties now.

Reply 2

Drewski

19

Special? Meh

More fun? Definitely.

Found it to be the opposite.

Reply 4

Oxford Mum

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Original post by Anonymous

When I was younger and lost my virginity (to someone I loved at the time) I wasn't really thinking about the future too much. I saw it as fun and a great way to bond.

Now, however, I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't see a future with. I like to take my time with it.

Is this normal as you grow older?

That's a nice, sincere view. But life is not as straightforward as that.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Drewski

Special? Meh

More fun? Definitely.

More fun, with more experience you mean?

Reply 6

Bruinsgirl40

14

I've always seen it as something special to be honest. I have never slept with anyone i didn't love at the time. However, sex is waaay more fun as you get older :smile:

Reply 7

Drewski

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Original post by Anonymous

More fun, with more experience you mean?

Yes. Skills improve the more you do an activity

Reply 8

0le

21

I wouldn't say there is a trend either way. It just depends on ones circumstances.

Reply 9

black tea

19

No. It's less of a big deal when you are older and tends to happen less frequently.

Reply 10

watershower

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Original post by Anonymous

When I was younger and lost my virginity (to someone I loved at the time) I wasn't really thinking about the future too much. I saw it as fun and a great way to bond.

Now, however, I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't see a future with. I like to take my time with it.

Is this normal as you grow older?

honestly same, i rushed my first time because i had so many fantasies i wanted to fulfill. i got into that particular relationship just for the sex. it was fun, but it wasn’t special. i feel like i was too young at the time.

Original post by bhimi8

Maybe because you spent most of your life being promiscuous? sleeping with men that don't give a crap about you.

No, not at all.

Reply 12

Ciel.

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Original post by bhimi8

Maybe because you spent most of your life being promiscuous? sleeping with men that don't give a crap about you.

ah, that's something only a sexually frustrated incel would say.

Reply 13

Varss

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Original post by bhimi8

Yes it is and you know it is. You've slept with how many guys? You even lost your virginity to a random old man. Good luck getting married.

who the f*** is this don

Reply 14

gjd800

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Original post by bhimi8

Yes it is and you know it is. You've slept with how many guys? You even lost your virginity to a random old man. Good luck getting married.

**** off ye creep

Reply 15

Ciel.

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Original post by bhimi8

I fear that through even through engaging with you I may catch your politically correct ****** flu.

politically correct? that's a first. you must be new, hun 🙈 so yeah... please hire an escort or something, and stop taking out your frustrations on other people.