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Addicted to masturbation and porn.

Hi,

We have all seen these threads on TSR before, but I have not found the right answer yet. Let me explain.

I think I have got a massive addiction to masturbating and porn. I started when I was 14, and now I'm 18.

It's like smoking (I don't smoke) you crave a cigarette every time you need one. Well when I'm at work, I need a w**k if that makes sense?

I cannot go a day without one. I do it 3 times a day to different porn categories. I have a very, very high sex drive, sometimes I do it over random people I see in the street (not in public obviously, when I'm at home!) I even masturbate over celebrities which is so unrealistic.

I am single at the minute and have been for a while so it's hard not to relive yourself especially at this age. I have masturbated 4 times today.

I feel so embarrassed I'm putting this on the internet so out of privacy I put it on anon. None of my family know I masterbate.

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Reply 1
Bump - feel like one now haha but I will resist the urge.
Masterbation is quite common amongst men and women, so dont be ashamed, it is not disgusting. And most people if they are honest Male and female will admit to doing it.
Reply 3
Original post by Karisa96
Masterbation is quite common amongst men and women, so dont be ashamed, it is not disgusting. And most people if they are honest Male and female will admit to doing it.

Will it affect future relationships though? I mean I heard if you watch porn too much it can affect your view on realistic woman and you'll find it hard to get turned on.
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It’s one of my deepest addictions too. Everyday I do it 2 to 3 times. I gain no female satisfaction and so resort to the pleasure of petting my little pup. Its normal don’t worry. Maybe try get involved in other things to take your mind of it because I usually do it when I’m bored and so by being busy with other things I forget about feeding my deep deep desires.
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
It’s one of my deepest addictions too. Everyday I do it 2 to 3 times. I gain no female satisfaction and so resort to the pleasure of petting my little pup. Its normal don’t worry. Maybe try get involved in other things to take your mind of it because I usually do it when I’m bored and so by being busy with other things I forget about feeding my deep deep desires.

Yeah, I know it's normal but I'm just apprehensive of what affect it'll have in the long run.
Sounds like you just need to get a life :smile:
Reply 8
Original post by OR321
Sounds like you just need to get a life :smile:

I've got one, and it's going good, I just need advice on how to cut out something I don't want to carry on.
Original post by Anonymous
I've got one, and it's going good, I just need advice on how to cut out something I don't want to carry on.

Do you go uni or something? Coz ever since starting uni I literally have no time to do anything at home because I’m busy or just too tired 😂.
Original post by Anonymous
Will it affect future relationships though? I mean I heard if you watch porn too much it can affect your view on realistic woman and you'll find it hard to get turned on.


Haven't really had any experience with porn but I can see how it could possibly affect your views on Women.
If I were you I would stick to masterbating.
Original post by OR321
Do you go uni or something? Coz ever since starting uni I literally have no time to do anything at home because I’m busy or just too tired 😂.

No mate, I only just recently left college and now I'm in employment until I decide what to do next. Currently I have so much free time on my hands (pun intended) I am bored stupid :biggrin:
Original post by Anonymous
No mate, I only just recently left college and now I'm in employment until I decide what to do next. Currently I have so much free time on my hands (pun intended) I am bored stupid :biggrin:

Ahhh okay. Ngl when I’m bored I literally just meet up with a friend or stay home and watch Netflix. If you need some good shows then lmk 😂
Original post by Anonymous
It’s one of my deepest addictions too. Everyday I do it 2 to 3 times. I gain no female satisfaction and so resort to the pleasure of petting my little pup. Its normal don’t worry. Maybe try get involved in other things to take your mind of it because I usually do it when I’m bored and so by being busy with other things I forget about feeding my deep deep desires.

It's not normal nor is it healthy. You even admit that you can't get turned on by women and have to do it yourself; this isn't a good thing. It's an addiction.

There's nothing wrong with it, obviously, but you do need to get help.

Masturbating is absolutely normal, but doing so frequently is not good.
Original post by OR321
Ahhh okay. Ngl when I’m bored I literally just meet up with a friend or stay home and watch Netflix. If you need some good shows then lmk 😂

Thanks bro, yeah I will. And I didn't want the above comment about having a life to come across as sarcastic. But I will definitely take your suggestions into consideration.
Original post by Anonymous
It's not normal nor is it healthy. You even admit that you can't get turned on by women and have to do it yourself; this isn't a good thing. It's an addiction.

There's nothing wrong with it, obviously, but you do need to get help.

Masturbating is absolutely normal, but doing so frequently is not good.

What should I do next? TBH I did think that it wasn't healthy, well porn atleast. I wish I never found out about it.
Original post by Anonymous
Thanks bro, yeah I will. And I didn't want the above comment about having a life to come across as sarcastic. But I will definitely take your suggestions into consideration.

I’m a sarcastic mofo so yeah
But watch Money Heist or Elite 😂😂
Original post by Anonymous
Will it affect future relationships though? I mean I heard if you watch porn too much it can affect your view on realistic woman and you'll find it hard to get turned on.


I think with most people it doesn’t to be completely honest. I think it’s mostly about distinguishing between fiction and reality. I admittedly do watch porn, but at the end of the day I know that it is an unrealistic representation of relationships, and women (and men for that matter) deserve to be treated with respect. It hasn’t really impacted any of my relationships.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi,

We have all seen these threads on TSR before, but I have not found the right answer yet. Let me explain.

I think I have got a massive addiction to masturbating and porn. I started when I was 14, and now I'm 18.

It's like smoking (I don't smoke) you crave a cigarette every time you need one. Well when I'm at work, I need a w**k if that makes sense?

I cannot go a day without one. I do it 3 times a day to different porn categories. I have a very, very high sex drive, sometimes I do it over random people I see in the street (not in public obviously, when I'm at home!) I even masturbate over celebrities which is so unrealistic.

I am single at the minute and have been for a while so it's hard not to relive yourself especially at this age. I have masturbated 4 times today.

I feel so embarrassed I'm putting this on the internet so out of privacy I put it on anon. None of my family know I masterbate.


To be honest you are quite normal. I find that I tend to not masturbate when I’m really tired, so if you want to stop or reduce the frequency you do it just keep yourself busy.
I reduced my time watching porn by setting a punishment for myself if I watch it, like I stop myself from eating junk food for the next day or week

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