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Muslim (kinda) girl sexual thoughts

I know this is weird but I'm 14 and have religiously strict parents like realllllly strict. However I am very sexual I think about sex all the time and very easily turned on I've also had wet dreams . Like sex with guys and girls I've never watched porn and Done anything remotely sexual, as this isn't aloud in Islam. I feel as if I might burst!I don't know how to please myself
Also In Islam its usually men who have hard to control sexual thoughts is there something wrong with me???

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Both men and women are sexual. That's the natural fact of life. It's not weird, you're doing exactly what you're meant to do as a human.
Just accept it, don't feel bad about it.
Masturbate and let it all out.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I don't know how to I'm only 14

Look it up 😂😂

Original post by Anonymous

I don't know how to I'm only 14

Literally just touch yourself. There's nothing else to it. Only you know what you will and won't like. And it's better to have a good grasp on that for future relationships to make sure you have fulfilling ones.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I don't know how to I'm only 14

People a lot younger than you do it.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

just rub your clit, just above your vagina. it helps to be comfy eg on your bed, and you might want to watch porn or read erotica to turn you on first. i rub my clit and watch porn usually, and then as i come closer to climaxing i rub faster and harder and feel myself getting more and more horny, and then i feel the release of orgasming. its great, also good if you cant sleep.
if your parents are strict probably lock the door or do it at night though.

OK I'll try 😏wish me luck haha

allowed hun

we require an update on the situation

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anirudh1666

we require an update on the situation

Why???!

Reply 10

Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Why???!

because we gave you advice and want to know if it helped

Reply 11

Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

What the f**** that ain't normal hunny. Well it is to have seuxal feelings but masturbate or get wet dreams... nahhhh

wtf

Original post by Anonymous

wtf

Reply 14

Anonymous #6

Bruh it's haram to masturbate in Islam. If you've already done it go ask for forgiveness or something.

Reply 15

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

What the f**** that ain't normal hunny. Well it is to have seuxal feelings but masturbate or get wet dreams... nahhhh

You know that statement is nonsense

Reply 16

Anonymous #7

I'm not Muslim but I've always wondered why these kind of posts are put here.
I mean you're most likely not going to get a proper Islamic perspective on this considering most of the people here aren't Muslim...and I hope you're not actually listening to most of what these guys have said above.

That being said. Assuming that this isn't a troll. No there's nothing wrong with you, these feelings are normal. I'm sure there are Muslim forums out there, likely with similar questions as your own, that would help you handle this. You just have to look for them.

All the best.

Reply 17

Anonymous #8

Original post by Anonymous

im also muslim boy 16 years old message mee cause im the same so sexualll😂

Reply 18

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

Sounds like you are actually a muslim. And also there are wide varieties of opinions among muslims as well anyway. And in any case it does not make sense for you to imply that a "muslim perspective" is the only relevant perspective on this topic.

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Reply 19

generallee

Assuming this post is genuine, (and one does wonder) it goes to show how destructive religious dogma is. In this case Islam, but the same goes for Judaism and Christianity. I don't know much about Hinduism of Buddhism.

Sex is an immutable, powerful and completely natural human instinct. It is inbuilt into our DNA to continue the species and replicate our genes.

Yet as soon as religion gets involved people unfortunately unwilling subscribers to the dogma, get ridden with confusion and guilt. They are made to feel that sexual desire, in itself, is wrong.

Why on earth would God care what your dreams and fantasies are? Your sexuality? Why would He have a problem with you masturbating? Or indeed having sex? But according to the doctrines to do so makes you very naughty indeed and you will displease Him. And maybe even end up in hell, burning in torment for all eternity, if you are gay.

It is both absurd, but more to the point, wicked.