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So I've started chatting to this girl online, normally conversations don't go very far if anywhere so on paper I feel that we could be a great couple (although certain aspects of her personality do ring alarm bells tbh). However, looking at her photos I really don't find her attractive at all and can't see myself every feeling it about her. With most girls I would feel at least some degree of physical attraction so is this doomed? It's a shame as it's really rare that I am able to hold a conversation with someone.
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you aren't attracted and have red flags about her personality... I mean think about it
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don't do it, when it's the right girl you won't have to think about it, you'll just know
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If you're not attracted to her and you're hesitant on her personality, you wont likely to have a lasting relationship or a one where it feels like one. Maybe being friends is a better option since you are able to hold your conversations with her
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(Original post by PetitePanda)
If you're not attracted to her and you're hesitant on her personality, you wont likely to have a lasting relationship or a one where it feels like one. Maybe being friends is a better option since you are able to hold your conversations with her
Hmm one thing is though, if I'm interested with a girl I'm nervous af and that makes her run a mile and ghost me. So maybe if I wasn't into her so much, I might be more relaxed and not drive her away, but my feelings might grow one day?
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No.
You don't seem at all positive about anything about her- personality, looks or achievements.
Don't waste your time or hers.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
No.
You don't seem at all positive about anything about her- personality, looks or achievements.
Don't waste your time or hers.
But she's shown an interest in me and girls rarely do. She might be my only chance of not being single.
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But she's shown an interest in me and girls rarely do. She might be my only chance of not being single.
How old r u because you sound so desperate?
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But she's shown an interest in me and girls rarely do. She might be my only chance of not being single.
How old r u, because you sound so desperate?
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Hmm one thing is though, if I'm interested with a girl I'm nervous af and that makes her run a mile and ghost me. So maybe if I wasn't into her so much, I might be more relaxed and not drive her away, but my feelings might grow one day?
But you said you can’t see yourself feeling it about her. You’ll just lead her on if you’re betting on that uncertainty. If you want to go for it and hope your feelings might grow one day, start off being friends and see if it happens along the way.
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How old r u, because you sound so desperate?
I'm in my mid twenties. I've never had a girlfriend so I suppose I am a bit desperate tbh.
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But she's shown an interest in me and girls rarely do. She might be my only chance of not being single.
If you are just looking for a hookup or fwb, be honest with her.

But don't start dating because you fear being alone.
You could go from being unhappy single to one of two unhappy people, feeling angry and trapped in a toxic relationship.
I am happily single, have been for almost six years.
It is better to be happy and alone than to be in a miserable relationship or with the wrong person.
Good luck!
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