How do you keep someone loving you?

My girlfriend is sooo beautiful and amazing and perfect in every way! I need her in my life! Aldo I'm getting paranoid. I keep messaging her throughout the day but she never seems to answer me then when we talk with each other she just gives me short answers and never asks me questions. Maybe, it's just my paranoia again and I should go back to the doctor but I am getting more and more worried about this. It feel like no matter what I get there it isn't enough. Should I buy her more things?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Original post by LKLKLK

Talk to her about how you feel! Maybe she is a little paranoid or unsure herself about how you feel, or she has something going on at home etc?

Reply 2

username4986690

You can't, how people feel is not entirely in your control.

Reply 3

Surnia

Does she study or work? She doesn't have to be on hand to answer lots of your texts and may be getting fed up with them. Talk to her. And don't get unnecessary presents, you can't buy true love!

Reply 4

LKLKLK

Original post by Surnia

Does she study or work? She doesn't have to be on hand to answer lots of your texts and may be getting fed up with them. Talk to her. And don't get unnecessary presents, you can't buy true love!

I think she just started Year 4 but I don't no if she's working yet

Reply 5

LKLKLK

Original post by DiddyDecAlt

You can't, how people feel is not entirely in your control.

But she my true love and were met to be together forever and ever and I cant lose her. I wish I could make her love me

Reply 6

username4986690

Original post by LKLKLK

But she my true love and were met to be together forever and ever and I cant lose her. I wish I could make her love me

You should work on your clinginess.

Reply 7

MidgetFever

Your paranoia is more likely to push her away if anything...

But I cant lose her!

Clingyness isn't usually seen as attractive
People in relationships like varying levels of closeness, but an unhealthy need for someone is usually not desired

Reply 10

LKLKLK

Original post by Issakatie

Clingyness isn't usually seen as attractive
People in relationships like varying levels of closeness, but an unhealthy need for someone is usually not desired

I understand. I just wish she was with me right now. I love her so much

Reply 11

username2393237

You shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal and you can’t buy love. Your whole attitude is unhealthy and you need to work on yourself before you get into a relationship.

Reply 12

5hyl33n

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This sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to me. You sound obsessive and possessive. Just meet up with her and ask what she wants.

Reply 13

username2393237

Original post by LKLKLK

But I cant lose her!

Your would be fine without her. Your attitude is a bit scary to be honest.

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Reply 14

Torigracex

You say she’s the love of your life but you don’t know what year she’s in or whether she’s working again yet?

Reply 15

LKLKLK

Original post by YaliaV

You shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal and you can’t buy love. Your whole attitude is unhealthy and you need to work on yourself before you get into a relationship.

But I have nothing and I have no way of improving my life. Ive hit rock bottom. I dont know what to do these days. I feel like im just surviving but not living.

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Original post by 5hyl33n

This sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to me. You sound obsessive and possessive. Just meet up with her and ask what she wants.

I see her every week day while she walks to school.

Reply 18

Sammylou40

Wait, year 4? As in 7 years old???

Reply 19

username2393237

Original post by LKLKLK

But I have nothing and I have no way of improving my life. Ive hit rock bottom. I dont know what to do these days. I feel like im just surviving but not living.