i personally know a lot of girls who go on tinder just to swipe for fun and if they happen to find someone you find attractive they might respond. id say establish what you want from it - sounds to me like youre looking for hookups - and put that in your bio. there'll be girls who also want that
tips:
dont be stiff when messaging people, and for your mum's sake dont use any pickup lines. just treat us how you treat everyone else and let the convo flow.
no need to force anything or try too hard to be funny or whatever, that can be wet. insert the cliche be yourself but like your good self lol so no one word responses or any of that if youre interested. just literally text how you normally do, it'll ease so much pressure off.
starting convos with "heyy" is cool because youre leaving the ball in their court if theyre interested and find you attractive. if she finds you attractive she'll respond to a heyy. it's casual enough for strangers to use without seeming desperate or like theyre trying too hard.
if they respond with a hey back or something equally unamusing that's your cue to lead the convo. try to ask something personal about their profile cuz people love talking about themselves. then just roll with it from there i guess
the thing is about online dating apps is it's so easy to lose interest because it's so hard to establish rapport with the person, so ghosting is gonna be a v frequent occurrence that you should be prepared for unfortunately cuz not everyone's gonna give closure and speak up even if you met up with them or whatever.
there are gonna be people who might want to use you, physically or financially, so be careful from that and if youre not enjoying your time or feel something's off always make sure you give your friends your location if youre going on a date (always a public place!!) and a check in time to message them that everything's okay. it might look extra, but please be safe because these are strangers at the end of the day that you know nothing about.
inviting people to where you live on first meetup isnt the smartest idea - one guy did that with me (not off tinder but yeah) and i was worried for myself and kind of surprised. he was safe and nice thankfully but lord it couldve gone so wrong. so dont put yourself, or anyone else, in a situation where they're outside their comfort zone to that extent on a first meetup
so bottom line is just be yourself, be clear with your intentions, and be casual and easygoing and stay wrapped up. goodluck x