I said hurtful things to my bf

As difficult as it is, if he has asked for space, then I would be inclined to grant him that.
Better he figures things out in his own mind without any disruptions.
Give him a day or two, then send him a light hearted message and see what response you get.

I said some really hurtful things to my boyfriend today and I feel like I've been pestering him (while he has been at work bless him). I've been so nasty and I feel awful. This has come at a time when we were already going through a rough patch - we were certain on marriage before but have experienced a lot of downs recently so our future has been quite uncertain. It's mostly me that causes the issues as I have anxiety.

He has been super patient throughout but we both agree that I need to change. But today he's just had enough of me and wants space. When I ask him what's happening with us he won't give me a clear answer, but when I told him I want it to work out between us he told me he hasn't wasted a year for nothing. I told him I love him and he reciprocated, then I asked if he could meet this weekend and he said 'we'll see'. He wasn't up for talking on the phone today... I'm not sure what to do - should I just give him space then message him on friday asking if he wants to meet on the weekend?

Okay thanks. Does it sound like he's done?

what do you expect, you pestered him so much, if I was him I would do the same or worse. Give him space then after a couple days apologise and grovel to him.

Not necessarily, a few days to clear his head may make all the difference.
Just remember to let him be, he may even contact you. Hope all works out okay.

I think you just need to give him a little space to think about things, he's said he loves you and wants to work on it so the best thing you can do right now is respect his wishes.

Is like to meet a girl that has never pestered her significant other. I have never heard of it.

It was extreme though lol

I said some really hurtful things to my boyfriend today and I feel like I've been pestering him (while he has been at work bless him). I've been so nasty and I feel awful. This has come at a time when we were already going through a rough patch - we were certain on marriage before but have experienced a lot of downs recently so our future has been quite uncertain. It's mostly me that causes the issues as I have anxiety.

He has been super patient throughout but we both agree that I need to change. But today he's just had enough of me and wants space. When I ask him what's happening with us he won't give me a clear answer, but when I told him I want it to work out between us he told me he hasn't wasted a year for nothing. I told him I love him and he reciprocated, then I asked if he could meet this weekend and he said 'we'll see'. He wasn't up for talking on the phone today... I'm not sure what to do - should I just give him space then message him on friday asking if he wants to meet on the weekend?

He needs space and an apology from you. He should not marry you too soon. You have issues and you are taking them out on him.

Okay thanks. I have apologised a lot. Do you think 3 days is enough space?

Yes, 3 days and then meet up with him if possible. And it sounds like you love him so you should remember that he is your best friend and so he deserves your best treatment.

Okay thanks. I really do. He has actually just messaged me now so that’s promising!

That's good. I am glad for you. You must remember to save your nicest and best behaviour for the ones you love the most!

Thank you! Do you think I should ask him today about meeting on the weekend, or save it for tomorrow?
Sorry for all the questions - last one promise