Loner in High School
I've been like this for years now and I honestly just feel depressed. the people in skwl were completely rude and there were cliques (I spoke to a teacher and it made matters worse and didn't change anything). Did anyone else experience this. Tbh it's just taken my motivation in life since I believe I'm always going to be a loner even when I reach college and university. I mean skwl is finished but I just realised how I made no memories whatsoever😓
You believe you're always going to be a loner, but why, is that because you want to be; prefer your own company and freedom, or is it because you don't make friends easily? I've always been a loner, even since before school, and I'm more than happy and comfortable with that. Sometimes I felt that I maybe should try to be more like other people; try to socialise more, go out more and accept more invitations, but the more I veered from being myself, the more unhappy I became.
Original post by Deborah_C
You believe you're always going to be a loner, but why, is that because you want to be; prefer your own company and freedom, or is it because you don't make friends easily? I've always been a loner, even since before school, and I'm more than happy and comfortable with that. Sometimes I felt that I maybe should try to be more like other people; try to socialise more, go out more and accept more invitations, but the more I veered from being myself, the more unhappy I became.
I can't make friends very easily and in the past when I did have friends I came to realise they were all fake and only came to me when no one else was there. Even when I watch these friendship groups I can see how they all speak abt each other behind there back but act fake when there in front. I'd rather be lonely and know I dnt have fake friends than acv hang out with fake ppl if that makes sense.
Original post by Anonymous
I can't make friends very easily and in the past when I did have friends I came to realise they were all fake and only came to me when no one else was there. Even when I watch these friendship groups I can see how they all speak abt each other behind there back but act fake when there in front. I'd rather be lonely and know I dnt have fake friends than acv hang out with fake ppl if that makes sense.
deal with it MOST of people that will come across in your lifetime will be just like robots and behave in the same way. thats the characteristics of the majority. they are less self conscious, less intelligent and less rational. if you find their herd mentality disgusting after carefully observing it in the background, then you are the one.
