I asked why he doesn't want an open relationship and he said he doesn't want an open relationship because he doesn't want me on another person's ****, I asked why and he couldn't give a reason. We're 19. I thought people in this day and age would be happy with open relationships.
(Some background info, we used to be super close but now we're really not and he admitted I just serve the purpose of cuddling, sexual stuff and hanging out sometimes, but he won't end the relationship, so I said why can't I do this with other people too, since he's not very committed and doesn't have strong feelings anymore so why should I be exclusive and give him more than he gives me? Why should he always choose what sort of relationship we have?)
Why would he not want to have an open relationship when he doesn't really care about our relationship?