Am I weird if I remember my enemies/ex friends birthdays and the day they died?

Anonymous #1

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Are you old

Original post by Anonymous

Are you old

No I am 19. One of my enemies died when we were 17.

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5hyl33n

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Original post by Anonymous

No I am 19. One of my enemies died when we were 17.

Bit harsh calling that person your ‘enemy’ when you guys were only 17 and he is now dead.

Unless he was inappropriate to you or others?

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999tigger

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Very.

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Sorcerer's Storm

Died?? You planning to kill them bro?

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Anonymous #1

Original post by 5hyl33n

Bit harsh calling that person your ‘enemy’ when you guys were only 17 and he is now dead.

Unless he was inappropriate to you or others?

Who says the enemy was a male? She’s a female. She was one of the popular lot who used to bully people for no reason and at the same time she was sick herself and died from her illness.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by WoodlandSorcerer

Died?? You planning to kill them bro?

One of them died from their illness.

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Anonymous #3

no I end up remember everything and really random things

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Sorcerer's Storm

Original post by Anonymous

One of them died from their illness.

Were you happy and smug about that??

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Anonymous #1

Original post by 999tigger

Very.

We are all weird in our own ways

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Anonymous #1

Original post by WoodlandSorcerer

Were you happy and smug about that??

Yeah when I first heard

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999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

We are all weird in our own ways

Unhealthy.

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Anonymous #4

I have an odd memory for some things myself. I can be 'hyper-vigilant' in some instances. Acutely. It's like my brain runs on steroids all of a sudden and I can remember too much detail. It's weird, it doesn't always trigger when I expect it to, and behaves differently on different days. Sometimes the memory doesn't keep up 100% for example.

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Anonymous #1

It’s like I know what’s on her gravestone.

This is just one person, everyone else I know of is alive, I just remember their birthdays for some reason

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gjd800

You sound like a delight

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5hyl33n

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah when I first heard

Sometimes I wonder if people like you are even human...

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Anonymous #1

Original post by 5hyl33n

Sometimes I wonder if people like you are even human...

Just because they died in pain doesn’t mean what they did will be forgotten about

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Anonymous #1

Original post by 5hyl33n

Sometimes I wonder if people like you are even human...

An ex friend of mine got her group of girls to hate me as well and they walk away in the opposite direction if they see a person they don’t like. They hold grudges on people for life and then they forgive when they hear they died

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londonmyst

Not weird.
Some people just have very good memories.
I remember birthdays and conversations that occurred years ago- involving childhood friends/old housemates/school bullies/evil people.
Particularly after I've drunk a lot of booze.

But hate, gloating and rage are all very negative emotions.
Life is too short to waste obsessing over the past or focusing on negativity.
The past is gone and nothing can be done to change it.
It is the present and future that matter more than the ghosts of years ago.