Is it easier to love or to be loved?

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What do you think? :beard:



Personally I think it's probably easier to love someone or something than to inspire a similar feeling from someone else, but I'd be interested to hear some arguments against that.
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For me, it's definitely easier to love. It's hard to influence someone to love you back (for me anyway!).

But then, giving is better than receiving anyway
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I wouldn’t have the foggiest. 😂
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I love you
Thanks for proving my theory - you literally metaphorically love everyone :rofl:
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I think without doubt, it is easier to love.
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What theory? :eek:
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Except for you know who :cry2:
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Love is a weak emotion, I much prefer to hate
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Hi baby I love you too. Xx
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love someone- not everyone loves you back :naughty:
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I find it much easier to be the object of it rather than subject to it, tbh
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What do you think? :beard:



Personally I think it's probably easier to love someone or something than to inspire a similar feeling from someone else, but I'd be interested to hear some arguments against that.
In my experience it has been easier to be loved. I have my guard up more than most people so never allowed myself to love enough.
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Love is a weak emotion, I much prefer to hate
Hate is the weakest emotion of all!
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to love someone is 100% in your control. to be loved is only 50% in your control. thus, arguably to love is easier. that's what i've found anyways. interesting question! :yep:
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Hate is the weakest emotion of all!
Hate is alpha, love is beta

Chant it with me: HATE! HATE! HATE!
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Hate is alpha, love is beta

Chant it with me: HATE! HATE! HATE!
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It's much easier to love, because that's just something that happens, but to get others to fall in love with you, you need to expend effort
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(Original post by 04MR17)
What do you think? :beard:



Personally I think it's probably easier to love someone or something than to inspire a similar feeling from someone else, but I'd be interested to hear some arguments against that.
I don't think you should have to inspire someone to love you. You can love someone but those feelings aren't always reciprocated but in the absence of reciprocity the love you have for them remains. Why is that? Because they are who they are. For that reason I believe someone can love you without you necessarily having to go out of your way and show you're worthy to be loved. I hope that makes sense...

That being said, I think it's easier to love than be loved because you may not know how to receive that love and in turn push them away or find it difficult to shake off the feeling of unworthiness.
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Video doesn't work my dude
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Love is a mutual thing.. In my opinion it is much easier to fall in love with someone but takes time to be loved by that person back...
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