Gay

I'm worried I might be gay, because I don't want to have to deal with homophobia. Let me tell you the story.

I was exercising recently around my local park, I was just jogging, when I came across this man. He must have been around 6', tough looking, good build, and was fairly handsome. But, when he took his top off, I halted and glanced at him. I couldn't take my eyes off him, until he began looking at me with a confused expression, at which point I jogged on. But since then, I can't take him off my mind, that image of him with no shirt on is haunting me and it's all I can think about. I only used to be attracted to women, but they are not doing anything for me.

Please, this is not a troll post and I can't sleep due to being so worried. Should I come out as gay?

It depends how long ago this happened. I have a couple friends who are in LGBTQ+ community but I don't have any experiences with it personally. Maybe wait a bit longer if it only happened a week ago because you don't want to come out right away and then realise that you aren't because many people will call you attention seeking. Could you talk to some friends of yours who are gay?

Should I come out as gay?

what for?

Because I can't stop wondering about that guy, literally as I write this, he is on my mind. Should I try to find him?

I'm worried I might be gay, because I don't want to have to deal with homophobia.

Should I come out as gay?

Yeah, but that doesn't mean you have to tell anyone you might be gay.

I'm worried I might be gay, because I don't want to have to deal with homophobia. Let me tell you the story.

I was exercising recently around my local park, I was just jogging, when I came across this man. He must have been around 6', tough looking, good build, and was fairly handsome. But, when he took his top off, I halted and glanced at him. I couldn't take my eyes off him, until he began looking at me with a confused expression, at which point I jogged on. But since then, I can't take him off my mind, that image of him with no shirt on is haunting me and it's all I can think about. I only used to be attracted to women, but they are not doing anything for me.

Please, this is not a troll post and I can't sleep due to being so worried. Should I come out as gay?

you could be bi. how old are you?

But I'm a freak and don't want to be one. That's why I'm terrified of being gay.

You think gay people are freaks?

I'm 23, don't see how that's relevant?

teens are often confused about their sexuality, hence my question. you should probably start with gay porn and see if you like it or not.

I don't like the idea of two men sucking each other off, I find that repulsive. During my teen years, I was only into the opposite sex, which I thought I still was, until that guy came along.

I don't like the idea of two men sucking each other off, I find that repulsive. During my teen years, I was only into the opposite sex, which I thought I still was, until that guy came along.

So despite being into women for years, you now think you are gay after seeing one guy with his top off?

well, do you like the idea of that guy sucking you off? if you still find it repulsive, then it's probably just a random fascination. like, just because you think someone's good looking doesn't make you gay.

I don't like the idea of two men sucking each other off, I find that repulsive. During my teen years, I was only into the opposite sex, which I thought I still was, until that guy came along.