I completely agree - it does depend on the standard.
I'm a native speaker of 2 languages (2 languages which I grew up with simultaneously). At school, I then studied French and Spanish and continued them and began Japanese at university. Even though I
always got 100% for every single speaking and writing piece I did for A level French and Spanish, I never considered myself fluent because I knew I wasn't even close. Even after graduating with a degree in them, I'm always cautious about labelling myself as a fluent speaker or a true multilingual.
I've also studied and worked in Japan for 2 years. I initially went to Japan during my third year at Edinburgh University, and I took regular Honour's level modules with Japanese students in modern Japanese literature or philosophy etc, attended all of my seminars and lecturers in Japanese, and wrote all of my essays and exams in the language as well. A few years later, I worked in Tokyo and spoke to my clients and colleagues in Japanese. Ergo, even though I dream and read novels in Japanese, have written academic papers and sat exams in Japanese, and have worked in the country, I'm still not sure that I personally consider myself to actually be
fluent. I don't even know what the proper metric for being considered fluent is! Maybe my standards are too high? Or, maybe because I know how actual native speakers are like, I'm too hard on myself?
In any case,
@hffhgghhghg I'm not sure if you would meet the criteria for being a bilingual speaker of French just yet. You have to remember that A level is only intermediate and not even upper-intermediate. If you choose to do a degree in a foreign language, you'd go onto studying upper-intermediate and advanced French, and then after that there's a whole new world of even more advanced language beyond advanced.
That said, everyone has different standards for language fluency. Even people who've done just a GCSE or who can only produce a single sentence may call themselves fluent or bilingual. I'd just be a little cautious if I were you.