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He wont do it for me?

My boyfriend wont eat me what should i do? He doesnt like the way it looks :frown:

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stop doing it for him?
maybe then he'll change his mind, i mean d*cks aren't all that attractive either...
Reply 2
Erm, well if he doesnt like it, dont do it...
Thats not right at all if you were my girl l would love to eat you out every day and give you lots of foreplay and always make you very happy you need to get him out of your life he is no use for you he is a very selfish lover well l dont think he knows much about real true loving at all he has no real love and respect for you he wants it all his way stop giving him any more blow jobs freeze him out of your life its so sad that you are not getting any true love and sexy pleasure its so sad
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriend wont eat me what should i do? He doesnt like the way it looks :frown:

Either he's been watching too much porn or is a selfish lover imho.

Don't pleasure him if he doesn't pleasure you; sex is a two way street
Original post by laughinglad999
Thats not right at all if you were my girl l would love to eat you out every day and give you lots of foreplay and always make you very happy you need to get him out of your life he is no use for you he is a very selfish lover well l dont think he knows much about real true loving at all he has no real love and respect for you he wants it all his way stop giving him any more blow jobs freeze him out of your life its so sad that you are not getting any true love and sexy pleasure its so sad


You’re so gallant
Original post by YaliaV
You’re so gallant

Thank you so much
Why are people replying like there's something wrong with the guy?
If he doesn't wanna do it then he doesn't wanna do it.
I don't get why people are saying "don't do it for him and see how he likes it"
Imagine the roles were reversed and a woman didn't want to do it for a guy, we'd be monsters for saying not to do it for her or pressuring in any way.
Original post by georgeparasol12
Why are people replying like there's something wrong with the guy?
If he doesn't wanna do it then he doesn't wanna do it.
I don't get why people are saying "don't do it for him and see how he likes it"
Imagine the roles were reversed and a woman didn't want to do it for a guy, we'd be monsters for saying not to do it for her or pressuring in any way.

He does not know what to do he does not know how to pleasure the girl
Respect his decision? You wouldn't like it if he was pressuring you to give him a blowjob when you didn't feel comfortable doing so
respect him otherwise he might dump you do u want that?
Don't do it for him. I understand people just don't like doing that stuff but d*cks arent the nicest either:biggrin:
Original post by laughinglad999
He does not know what to do he does not know how to pleasure the girl


She says he doesn't like the look of it and won't go down there.
If the roles were reversed it'd be fine and anyone saying 'don't do it for her then' would be 'monsters'
Original post by georgeparasol12
She says he doesn't like the look of it and won't go down there.
If the roles were reversed it'd be fine and anyone saying 'don't do it for her then' would be 'monsters'

l understand
Original post by laughinglad999
Thats not right at all if you were my girl l would love to eat you out every day and give you lots of foreplay and always make you very happy you need to get him out of your life he is no use for you he is a very selfish lover well l dont think he knows much about real true loving at all he has no real love and respect for you he wants it all his way stop giving him any more blow jobs freeze him out of your life its so sad that you are not getting any true love and sexy pleasure its so sad


This is so sweet!😭
Original post by Anonymous
This is so sweet!😭

Thank you if l was dating a girl l would always please her in every way in bed and out of bed and always make her very happy and l am a single guy and not a player l would like to find a girl to date
Reply 16
Bring it up with him tbh.

At the end of the day if he doesn't want to do something sexual, he don't wanna do it. Consent.
I cannot believe people are getting upset at people saying she should stop giving blowjobs if he doesn’t want to eat her. Wtf do women look like to you? Service machines? If he isn’t willing to atleast try to please her by going down, then why should she? She has that option. She’s not pressuring him if she wants the same treatment.

There are guys who’ll eat her out if she’s hygienic but she obviously cares enough about this guy to seek advice on his inability to please her.
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Original post by georgeparasol12
She says he doesn't like the look of it and won't go down there.
If the roles were reversed it'd be fine and anyone saying 'don't do it for her then' would be 'monsters'


You’re telling me that if a girl made a guy feel insecure about his penis by saying she doesn’t like how it looks and that’s why she’s not giving him head, the vast majority of people will label others as monsters for saying not to do it for her ? Are you serious ? No one has to do anything they don’t want to do but they shouldn’t expect something they don’t offer in return either especially if it’s done for them multiple times before.
Original post by YaliaV
You’re so gallant


It put me in mind of Pride and Prejudice. Beautiful.

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