it’s your fault, why have you been stringing them along? Obviously for them to be “dating” you then there must have been some actions from your behalf. You probs don’t even like them if you’ve been talking to 2 boys. If you do like one, let the other one gently that you have no intentions of pursing a relationship with him
dating and bf/gf are 2 completely different things. However i agree with another point made here that you are stringing them along, it's not fair and you need to be honest with them and yourself. Naturally if it was you, would you be happy that the guy your seeing is also seeing someone else at the same time? It's awful really. If your not sure who to be with then take a step back completely and really assess what it is that you are looking for in a person...whether that is a fling? An emotional connection? Fun? Just treat them how you want to be treated with respect.