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Guy put my nudes all over a website now all my friends are calling me a ****

So I stupidly sent nudes to this guy with my face in it he said he liked me and all that and wanted to be with me but then he ghosted me then few days later a guy friend told me he saw my nudes on a website then he told all my other friends a couple of them said I am such a slut for doing it I feel so hurt and humiliated I won't talk to anyone now why would someone do this to me?

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Don’t worry it happens to a lot of people but he’s not allowed to distribute nudes. I’m so sorry someone took you for granted. You are not a slut your friends should support you and not be disrespectful. I hope you are ok :smile:
Original post by Anonymous
So I stupidly sent nudes to this guy with my face in it he said he liked me and all that and wanted to be with me but then he ghosted me then few days later a guy friend told me he saw my nudes on a website then he told all my other friends a couple of them said I am such a slut for doing it I feel so hurt and humiliated I won't talk to anyone now why would someone do this to me?

I would go to the police or try and find someone who can help remove them.

These people calling you a slut are not your friends. Block/ignore and find new supportive mates.
read this https://www.brettwilson.co.uk/services/defamation-privacy-online-harassment/misuse-of-private-information/revenge-porn/
You are not a slut, and im sure you have learnt your lesson.
I have a golden rule, I never post photos of any description, or any personal information, on any social media website, for exactly this reason. Good luck. Xx
Revenge porn is so common now a days as alot of people let there emotion get the better of them and they do something stupid.im sorry to tell you but there is little to nothing you can do about this as it's on the interent now and plenty of people have seen it. Im so sorry
That's why you shouldn't send nudes to anyone
Original post by 1st superstar
That's why you shouldn't send nudes to anyone

Really don't get why people think it's anywhere near worth the risk.
Original post by Anonymous
So I stupidly sent nudes to this guy with my face in it he said he liked me and all that and wanted to be with me but then he ghosted me then few days later a guy friend told me he saw my nudes on a website then he told all my other friends a couple of them said I am such a slut for doing it I feel so hurt and humiliated I won't talk to anyone now why would someone do this to me?


I'm pretty sure this is illegal, especially since you didn't give consent for the images to be made public. It's even worse if you're under 18. Please seek advice from the police!
Original post by Anonymous
Really don't get why people think it's anywhere near worth the risk.

Really don't see why you had to be anonymous to say this but yeah I 100% agree with you.
Original post by 1st superstar
Really don't see why you had to be anonymous to say this but yeah I 100% agree with you.

Yeah probably didn't need to go anon but it's just cause so many people seem to support sending nudes. Last time I said people shouldn't I received a lot of hostile disagreement.
Original post by Anonymous
So I stupidly sent nudes to this guy with my face in it he said he liked me and all that and wanted to be with me but then he ghosted me then few days later a guy friend told me he saw my nudes on a website then he told all my other friends a couple of them said I am such a slut for doing it I feel so hurt and humiliated I won't talk to anyone now why would someone do this to me?

You should report him to the police and they can take it down for you. This is called revenge porn and it is illegal. Also, I’m not trying to be rude but I really hope you learnt your lesson and won’t do this again no matter who asks for it.
Original post by Fermion.
You should report him to the police and they can take it down for you. This is called revenge porn and it is illegal. Also, I’m not trying to be rude but I really hope you learnt your lesson and won’t do this again no matter who asks for it.

Police can't do anything , they can take it down but thousands have downloaded it already most likely.people don't be idiots and send nudes
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Original post by Karisa96
You are not a slut, and im sure you have learnt your lesson.
I have a golden rule, I never post photos of any description, or any personal information, on any social media website, for exactly this reason. Good luck. Xx



Is your name not Karisa tho?

were you not born in 1996?
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"You can also contact the Revenge PornHelpline, which offers advice and information on the legal help available. You can call the helpline on 0845 6000 459 and it is open from 10am-4pm, Monday to Friday."

Call it up. If you are under 18 (especially) or above, you should definitely contact the police.

For all those saying that's why you shouldn't send nudes in the first place, you are right but that is really not going to help OP rn. It's already done, OP cannot take it back and I am sure OP is regretting it more than you will know, she doesn't need you to comment something she has now learnt the hard way.

And to OP, rather than hide away from your friends, own it. So fu*king what, you cannot take it back, no need to hide away. People will always say sh*t about others even when they do not do things like this, a true friend will stick by your side even through this. And if you find no one is true, good on you. You can ditch them now rather than later when they really do you over. And if anyone sticks by you through this, never let them go. They're a keeper, someone who you can trust with all your life IMO
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Original post by HazelPoHOPE
Police can't do anything , they can take it down but thousands have downloaded it already most likely.people don't be idiots and send nudes

The police will charge this individual for revenge porn and prevent this individual from ruining more girls lives. Yes people will have already downloaded it but it will prevent MORE people from downloading it. Stop being so negative.
Original post by ANM775
Is your name not Karisa tho?

were you not born in 1996?

Lol it could be a totally fake name and year of birth
True they should definitely report their situation to the police
Original post by 1st superstar
True they should definitely report their situation to the police

Just realised I typed 'you could also contact police'. I stand corrected, you should definitely contact the police.
Agreed

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