My brother has left the house in a state after a party...

Original post by Anonymous

I appreciate the response. He's not a teenager.

They're always teenagers - usually well into their 30s...

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OP

Original post by Reality Check

They're always teenagers - usually well into their 30s...

Yeah, that's true. That's why him calling me 'childish' in the past really made me angry. The guy is a ****ing hypocrite.

He had the party the day my mum left...

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah, that's true. That's why him calling me 'childish' in the past really made me angry. The guy is a ****ing hypocrite.

He had the party the day my mum left...

Yep, that's pretty typical.

Put it this way, I'd lost track of the number of house parties I went to where it ended up as a bit of a wreck and all the lads would just slope off early in the morning and it was left to the girls to get the bin bags and cloths and basically spend the whole rest of the day getting the house back to normal: usually because they felt sorry for the girl(s) there left to face the devastation.

When he gets his ass back from work, I'd shove a cloth in one hand, a broom in the other and tell him to get the f*** on with it. No negotiations, no arguments, no discussion.

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NonIndigenous

Original post by Reality Check

Yep, that's pretty typical.

Put it this way, I'd lost track of the number of house parties I went to where it ended up as a bit of a wreck and all the lads would just slope off early in the morning and it was left to the girls to get the bin bags and cloths and basically spend the whole rest of the day getting the house back to normal: usually because they felt sorry for the girl(s) there left to face the devastation.

When he gets his ass back from work, I'd shove a cloth in one hand, a broom in the other and tell him to get the f*** on with it. No negotiations, no arguments, no discussion.

Or frame him. Grab some dog excrement from the local park and chuck it in parents' bedroom. Say his mates did it.

Reply 24

NonIndigenous

Sry lol. I love a bit of 'creativity' when dealing with exploitative people like what this guy sound he's like.

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Original post by NonIndigenous

Or frame him. Grab some dog excrement from the local park and chuck it in parents' bedroom. Say his mates did it.

Ooh, evil

Even worse - ruffle up all the bedclothes in the parents bedroom and make it look like one of her brother's mates was having sex with some girl in his parents' bed. That'll work :laugh:

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NonIndigenous

Original post by Reality Check

Ooh, evil

Even worse - ruffle up all the bedclothes in the parents bedroom and make it look like one of her brother's mates was having sex with some girl in his parents' bed. That'll work :laugh:

& block the toilet with bath towels.

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Original post by NonIndigenous

& block the toilet with bath towels.

I think we're getting carried away with this :laugh:

The poor girl has enough to deal with, without us two making it worse

Reply 28

Muttley79

I'd take some photos to use ... just in case :smile:

Please don't tidy up for him - that's what he's hoping for.

Reply 29

Chocolatecakexx

17

Take a picture,send it to him and tell him you'll tell your parents and clean as best as you can I know its not fair of him but you need to help out as much as u can even tho u werent involved

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username1339858_

16

Don't tidy it up.
He will try and wait it out, knowing that at some point you will be so bothered you will just clean it. Let him clean it up.

He likely didn't have time to clean it up before work (or was too hungover to face it). Leave it to him. He'll surely get to it tonight.

Reply 32

OP

Original post by sinfonietta

He likely didn't have time to clean it up before work (or was too hungover to face it). Leave it to him. He'll surely get to it tonight.

Not before work, but come on, I’ve been through worse and I’ve cleaned up mess single handed with a nuclear bomb of a headache. There is no excuse to spend 2-3 hours cleaning.

Reply 33

OP

If he’s waiting to see it I’ll clean it up for him, he’s a ****ing tool. This is why I refuse to talk to him or get involved with him in any way.

He’s rude to random strangers, obnoxious and lazy. He goes around thinking he’s the ****ing thing, but he’s so stuck up his own ass.

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username1339858_

16

Original post by Anonymous

If he’s waiting to see it I’ll clean it up for him, he’s a ****ing tool. This is why I refuse to talk to him or get involved with him in any way.

He’s rude to random strangers, obnoxious and lazy. He goes around thinking he’s the ****ing thing, but he’s so stuck up his own ass.

One day hopefully he'll grow up

Reply 35

OP

He's 24. I hope he does, but it's becoming increasingly unlikely.

By his age, you're supposed to know that if you make a mess, you clean it (i.e you take responsibility)

I mean judging by the noise, there must have been a dozen people or so here. The sitting room and kitchen are an absolute mess.

Reply 36

OP

@Reality Check

I hope you don't mind me @ting you

I just went out to get the dog some food, and I come back and my brother and a few of his friends are in the kitchen doing **** all.

One of them even goes "Hi (my name) we had a rave the other night" to which I replied "Yeah, and you lot kept me up till 4 am".

He says "Oh, you were in?"...

"You don't ****ing say".

How can these people have no ****ing idea...

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999tigger

19

Original post by Anonymous

@SoulfulTwist
@Reality Check

I hope you don't mind me @ting you

I just went out to get the dog some food, and I come back and my brother and a few of his friends are in the kitchen doing **** all.

One of them even goes "Hi (my name) we had a rave the other night" to which I replied "Yeah, and you lot kept me up till 4 am".

He says "Oh, you were in?"...

"You don't ****ing say".

How can these people have no ****ing idea...

Just do as said above take photos, leave it to him and make sure your parents bed looks violated.
If you want to go for advanced you can take tips from the Jonny Depp trial.
Its not your problem.

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