I split from my partner 2 weeks ago. She suddenly changed how she was in the relationship and for some unknown reason became quite cruel in how she made me feel and what she said in the days leading up to it. Since then we tried to be friends but she has continued to be cruel in the things she says making personal attacks. It's a double standard so what I used to get the silent treatment for doing, she now does and then has a go at me when I point that out.
From the time apart I have realised that she was manipulative in the relationship and there is a double standard between what is ok. She would only ever take and never give within the relationship. Also, what I would consider normal (like asking someone how there weekend was) is apparently not normal; that is just an example but it really made me question myself and how I come across. I feel like in the relationship, even though it was reasonably calm, I always felt like I was second guessing myself so I didn't do the wrong thing.
Now my issue is: after our last argument where she was scathing in what she said again, should I just bin her stuff or should I return it? She hasn't mentioned it but I don't want it here anymore. I want nothing more to do with it because the whole situation is toxic and affecting my mental health.