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That’s an awful label. You should be careful about sending pictures to people though because they can come back to haunt you. I’ve never done it, but I can’t imagine sexting is great for your self-esteem.
Original post by Anonymous
I am a virgin BUT I send inappropriate pics and sext with guys on snapchat. I feel like a hoe because im not just sexting with one guy but many guys. I feel like im leading some of them on as well because they think im only interested in them and they tell me how much they like me. one guy even told me how he loved me so much which I found cringy and creepy but I don't wanna stop talking to him since he's a sweet guy. So does this mean I am a hoe?

i'll be honest with you. That is hoe-like behavior hence why you may feel like on. You've given these guys the false impression that you are interesting only them, so you've essentially lied to them. My advise, you need to be very careful with the sexting, it can easily be turned against you as revenge porn, saved intimate stuff like this for a guy you can trust and who has told you he is only committed to you.

As one virgin to another, save it till you married. It's unlikely for someone to betray your trust after they are legally, financially and socially bound to you
Reply 62
'hoe' is an ugly word.

Its probably not the best idea to be sending nudes to multiple people- even one person is pretty risky. It sounds like you have a problem ( you mentioned the word 'addiction' ), so I would suggest taking a break and get yourself sorted out.
This is probably covering up another issue your having ( self esteem I would assume ).
You do you though, just be cautious.
Original post by YaliaV
That’s an awful label. You should be careful about sending pictures to people though because they can come back to haunt you. I’ve never done it, but I can’t imagine sexting is great for your self-esteem.

It works a little like a caffeine addiction.

It gets your energy up initially. Then you need more of it for the same effect. Eventually your 'self-esteem' becomes over-dependent on this type of reward.

It's an 'instant gratification' trap.
Original post by NonIndigenous
It works a little like a caffeine addiction.

It gets your energy up initially. Then you need more of it for the same effect. Eventually your 'self-esteem' becomes over-dependent on this type of reward.

It's an 'instant gratification' trap.

It works exactly like every addiction, I think you mean. This is considerably worse than a caffeine addiction though
Original post by LovelyMrFox
'hoe' is an ugly word.

Its probably not the best idea to be sending nudes to multiple people- even one person is pretty risky. It sounds like you have a problem ( you mentioned the word 'addiction' ), so I would suggest taking a break and get yourself sorted out.
This is probably covering up another issue your having ( self esteem I would assume ).
You do you though, just be cautious.

You are perceptive... "addiction".

hm. Good one.
(edited 3 years ago)
Original post by Theloniouss
It works exactly like every addiction, I think you mean. This is considerably worse than a caffeine addiction though

Yea it's just the first that came to mind, since I'm on a mild caffeine addiction at the moment.

I stop at 5pm though.
Not sure if you're a hoe as such, but leading these guys on isn't a nice thing to do. You should make it clear that you are sexting multiple other people, and that it doesn't mean anything to you, or you could be breaking a lot of hearts!

Maybe you should delete Snapchat for a little while, have a detox. Go hang out with friends. Sending nudes is risky business, and you never know, one of these guys could get annoyed that you lead them on and leak them... (worst case scenario, of course but please just be cautious)
Aspiring Jezzie
do not send nude pics to strangers u idiot
Hoe
noun

"a long-handled gardening tool with a thin metal blade, used mainly for weeding"

I am mostly certain that you're probably not a hoe...
Reply 71
Original post by Anonymous
As one virgin to another, save it till you married. It's unlikely for someone to betray your trust after they are legally, financially and socially bound to you

Don't be naive. Married people have affairs and get divorced.
Hi there
Op, I do not know what you want. It seems you too do not.
If you really find joy, pleasure in doing what you are doing now just do it then. I just hope that one day you will not be in troubles because of that...
And by the way, please, stop playing with the guy who love you, please. I know you like the fact that he loves as it boosts your ego but please stop that.
If it was a guy doing that to a girl I do not even try to imagine how people will be treating him like a peace of sh*t.
So op please, if you have a heart, stop playing with him. Because what you are doing with him is heartless.
Original post by Ackhnologia
Hi there
Op, I do not know what you want. It seems you too do not.
If you really find joy, pleasure in doing what you are doing now just do it then. I just hope that one day you will not be in troubles because of that...
And by the way, please, stop playing with the guy who love you, please. I know you like the fact that he loves as it boosts your ego but please stop that.
If it was a guy doing that to a girl I do not even try to imagine how people will be treating him like a peace of sh*t.
So op please, if you have a heart, stop playing with him. Because what you are doing with him is heartless.

You're right :frown: he's such a nice guy though. I do kind of like him but I just don't think we are compatible because he doesn't excite me the way my ex did. He has a behaviour of a simp. I don't know how to tell him I don't feel the same way after all these months of leading him on though, what if I lose him as a friend?
Original post by Anonymous
do not send nude pics to strangers u idiot

Should I send it to someone to knows my family friends school then? I think that's more risky don't you agree? :smile: And as they say no face no case
Why are you being so bitter throughout this thread? I'm not leading anyone on because I'm not dating any of them so it's not my responsibility for the way they feel towards me. I've never said I loved the guy back
Original post by Anonymous

As one virgin to another, save it till you married. It's unlikely for someone to betray your trust after they are legally, financially and socially bound to you

Lol wait until marriage? No way what if the guy is sh*t in bed? Then I'd have to divorce him
You are attention seeking and immature seeking attention to make you feel good about yourself and leading people on.
Original post by wastedcuriosity
Not sure if you're a hoe as such, but leading these guys on isn't a nice thing to do. You should make it clear that you are sexting multiple other people, and that it doesn't mean anything to you, or you could be breaking a lot of hearts!

Maybe you should delete Snapchat for a little while, have a detox. Go hang out with friends. Sending nudes is risky business, and you never know, one of these guys could get annoyed that you lead them on and leak them... (worst case scenario, of course but please just be cautious)

If I delete snapchat I won't have anything else to do :frown: I want to be addicted to other things such as games. Are there any good games I can play on PC? If anyone knows some good ones please let me know. I need other distractions until school starts
Original post by Anonymous
If I delete snapchat I won't have anything else to do :frown: I want to be addicted to other things such as games. Are there any good games I can play on PC? If anyone knows some good ones please let me know. I need other distractions until school starts

girl just pm me i'll give u advice Xx

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