Can't get a date or a girlfriend

Sex is overrated. Relationships are overrated.

Makes sense. Look, you actually seem like a decent guy, just very lonely. Its a tough one. Youve just got to wait it out. Right now is possibly one of the worst times to be dating anyway. Good luck!

Awe well from a girl’s perspective maybe try going out more with your friends to clubs, or just adding friends of friends through social media. A lot of hookups or friends with benefits does lead to relationships. I could only think of doing new activities to meet people or keep trying with the online dating.

Like if I found someone who I clicked with personality wise from my race, I would but hasn't been the case in the past. Just think I get along better with white girls, but I know dating on those preferences will be a tough one

Have the girls you been going for been with Asian men of your type before? They might say they are open or "don't discriminate" but this tends to be a lie. And if you are a "5/10 for an Asian" and not their preference the odds are stacked against you.

I have an Indian friend who likes white girls but they tend to just not like Indians in that sense. It's annoying that its a thing but its a thing.

Mate. I'm finished in my first year of uni and got rejected by a girl I really liked but I used that to bounce back. Btw , not tryna brag or anything but I've focused hard on my academics and at end of first year , I'm at the top of my class. I'm a virgin also but what does it matter man ?

Drive or channel all that sexual energy you have into excelling at other things. Your academics for example and to gain lots of money ( people can't resist someone who is independent and success). You already seem like a very intelligent guy.

Life ain't about having relationships and ****ing man. Just let that thought go and learn to enjoy other things. Go to the gym. Get ripped, meditate and find inner peace with yourself and ensure that YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY. I really think it's a lack of self esteem that is causing this issue. Get new clothes and go to he gym to build self esteem.

I know it will seem hard because believe me, I'm west Indian ( from the Caribbean) so I don't exactly fit in well it have much luck with white girls ( who I like) but don't use that as a reason to feel sorry for yourself. Get up, make a change and focus on your purpose and mission as a man. And that's when pussy will come to you naturally mate.

Well I don't know because I haven't asked about their dating history, but get the sense that most of those girls in uni hadn't because they were from more isolated parts of the UK. The 'don't discriminate' thing tends to be the case to either avoid guilt or rings true if you are actually very attractive for someone of your race.

Yeah a lot of white girls have preconceived ideas about Indians without actually getting to know them and certainly don't see them in a romantic/sexual way. Black guys seem to do a bit better here..

Even for black people face the same issue although not to the same extent and there's a huge amount of colourism. There's also the race fetish thing and the "I want light skin" thing babies which is just disturbing. It's also shocking to hear about all the racism that happens within relationships.

I’m not an expert by any means, but don’t put to much pressure on yourself to find someone. Your still young, and you may meat many more people either through your masters program or through what you choose to do after.

Don’t underestimate yourself, your doing a masters, so you must be intelligent (which many people find an attractive trait). Also physical attractiveness cannot be quantified, there’s no such thing as a 1/10 or 10/10, different people find different things attractive.

Best of luck with your masters

Yeah I hope I'm just not stuck with the same issues at 25 or 30, that's all but I'm sure you're right and the upcoming opportunities will be very, very helpful.

Well it wasn't my original plan and I'm not even confirmed on the course yet, but looking at the job market currently it looks like the best option to go for where I can put myself to some good use. Attractiveness is subjective agreed, but I don't think anyone has seen me in a sexual way so that maybe quantified it wrongly in my mind.

Thanks, that's much appreciated!

Try some hobbies that bring you in to contact with like minded women

I'm sure you're right, but I've seen way too many people wait, get to 35 and enter a loveless marriage. I think the 'rush' is trying to get experience with dating, girls, etc before an age where it becomes a turn off

but i think trying too much to find someone or forcing things also takes the fun out of it. i mean I'm not telling you what to do at all, but it's just my opinion

Yeah I think you might be right. Sometimes you worry about if it won't work out for you, that's all