Thank you, everyone who called me to this thread. Let's get started on this.
I am sorry realitysreflexx upset you. There was no need to make the (inaccurate) post he did. To give you an idea of what I think about him, I already have him on "ignore".
As for RA064's remark, he, with all due respect, is not an Oxbridge student. Maybe he was trying to help, but the person you should really listen to, of course, is the Oxford admissions officer, who knows their stuff. If the maths grade did matter, they would have told you, in no uncertain terms. I am pleased you checked this out.
When it comes to Oxford courses, some are more equal than others. For medicine, for instance, you would have to be virtually festooned with 8/9s (10 is the average). However, as Brightonmama confirms, languages are in the top 10 easiest subjects to get into at Oxford (this doesn't mean you don't need to take your foot off the pedal). One in 3 who apply will get in. Not bad odds, eh?
As for the remark about your grades, my elder son got in, from private school with 3 x 8/9s, exactly the same amount as you. Does that make you feel a little better?
So now we know you are ok to apply, let's focus on what you are doing. Basically, all the right things. Yes, you are reading French books. As a French graduate myself, I would love to know which ones. Quality rather than quantity. counts as languages are 85% literature and so it is very important to reflect on the passage of French you have just read and look at things like style, structure, characterisation, all this stuff. You will have to analyse a passage in French (maybe a poem, like my son had to). I would look at a poetry anthology and get a poetry appreciation book. Maybe your teacher will go through the odd poem after class to really pick them to pieces and get you into good practice. My son was lucky because, although he was lazy with his GCSEs, he had an English literature teacher who really believed in him.
To help with the MLAT, try reading some newspapers online as well. Start with something simple and work up. You need to immerse yourself in the language, so when you are faced with the MLAT, it will seem more natural, and easier! More than anything, the MLAT is a grammar test. Oxford sets a lot of store on grammar, and for good reason. If you are good at grammar, you have grasped the very foundation of a language and can concentrate on getting the style, vocab and substance of what you are saying right. Get yourself a good grammar book and practice, practice, practice. Maybe do some of the exercises at home and ask your teacher to mark it (sorry, French teacher, but it will be worth it if you get in).
My son (and I) have written a chapter about how to get into Oxford for German. OK so it's not French, but the principles are the same. I was the one who wrote the MLAT section. You only need to get about 50% on the MLAT to bag an interview, by the way.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6054206In fact, why don't I send you the entire Oxford Demystified book, for more handy hints?
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6100480As for your mental health issues, I hope you are feeling better now. Yes, Oxford can be tough on your mental health, and I hope you don't mind the relentless essays that will come your way. If you really think you will not be able to cope, have a word with your parents and teachers. There is a lot of pastoral support at Oxford, but it is worth thinking about before you apply rather than if you are holding an offer. the pressure will not be nearly as much as if you are a medic, for instance. My son really went to town on the social aspect of Oxford and sampled much more of the party life than his brother (a medic).
When you say "I am a linguistics fanatic" and "I am truly dedicated to this course" this gives me hope. Yes, you will get a lot of essays, however these are essays in a subject that you really love. I'm guessing it won't be a chore and developing time management skills will be a useful tool to help with this.
OK so this is a long post. I want to make another post now, about why learning languages is soooooo important
@Brightonmama@Culver@Espançais is a current Oxford French language student (also see her chapter in Oxford demystified). I would love to read her thoughts on this.