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Boyfriend of 4 weeks wants me to have a baby

Anonymous #1

Good or bad? Would you agree to it?

Reply 1

chipsandguac99

4

When you say that he wants a baby do you mean now or in the future once your relationship has developed further?

Reply 2

999tigger

19

Assuming you arent trolling, then run like the wind.

Reply 3

90 cent

16

well i mean if your okay with the fact that he will most likely leave you as a single mother and your on your own with a child struggling to provide by yourself then yeah sure

ultimately, its your decision - we don't know the full situation and only you actually have to carry the baby for 9 months and then raise it.

for some they can make it work, but it definitely sounds like a more difficult route to go down. if you're not sure you want one, that might be a good place to start.

Reply 5

claireestelle

22

If you meet right now, rather than in the future then definitely not. It took us about 6 years to decide it was time to have kids.

Reply 6

Moonbow

20

It’s quite unusual, and is quite risky in my view. Don’t let him pressure you into something like this, do it when your ready 😊

What could go wrong?

Original post by Anonymous

Good or bad? Would you agree to it?

Well it depends does he mean now? or later?

It would be a bit weird to raise a kid with a guy you've barely been with, you don't really know how well he'd be around kids, if you haven't been with him for that long.

If he means in the future, again that depends would you like kids, if you do then that's a good thing it means you two can probably see each other together in the future, and that's so imperative when it comes to making a relationship last.

Reply 9

mgi

20

Original post by Anonymous

Good or bad? Would you agree to it?

The point is what do you want? You barely know the guy!

Run away!

Is this kind of stupid stuff only happens in UK or what? I read here where girl wanted to have a baby even though she was only 20 and the guy was on the placement year and at university. This is complete rubbish. What people eat in UK?

Reply 12

SportScience98

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Original post by Anonymous

Is this kind of stupid stuff only happens in UK or what? I read here where girl wanted to have a baby even though she was only 20 and the guy was on the placement year and at university. This is complete rubbish. What people eat in UK?

No, that is misplaced viewpoint. I'm 22 and just about to start a masters degree (i never want bloody kids!)

Reply 13

mgi

20

Original post by Anonymous

Is this kind of stupid stuff only happens in UK or what? I read here where girl wanted to have a baby even though she was only 20 and the guy was on the placement year and at university. This is complete rubbish. What people eat in UK?

Steak and chips only!

Reply 14

mgi

20

Original post by conorellis42

No, that is misplaced viewpoint. I'm 22 and just about to start a masters degree (i never want bloody kids!)

famous last words!

Reply 15

mgi

20

Original post by yzanne

ultimately, its your decision - we don't know the full situation and only you actually have to carry the baby for 9 months and then raise it.

for some they can make it work, but it definitely sounds like a more difficult route to go down. if you're not sure you want one, that might be a good place to start.

No. No. No.!!

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

if this guy means in the future then its definitely something to think about if you do see a future with him, if he means now and seems to be pressuring you then honestly i would get away while you can, wouldn't surprise me if this guy has some sort of ulterior motive as to what he's doing :/