Ex (dumpee) GF accepted my friend request 4-5 months later?

I had pretty much completely given up any hope when I apologised to her and sent her a friend request.

I told her that I’ve never stopped thinking about her and that she’s always been in my heart.

And I left it at that.

4-5 months later and she’s accepted the request.

I just don’t know how to think about it...

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Reply 1

luvinthedark

she's your ex for a reason.

Reply 2

Foxehh

She probably needed those months to think and get their feelings back together.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by LovelyMrFox

She probably needed those months to think and get their feelings back together.

I think so too... because I sent both at the same time and it said she had read my apology + confession.

She could have ignored it like she might have done for all those months, but then to accept it pretty much out of the blue... I don’t know

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by khadijaaaxxxx

she's your ex for a reason.

The reason she’s my ex is because of something I did, and it wasn’t a really good reason at all.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

It’s hard not to overthink, especially with her.

Why are you saying that?

Reply 6

Foxehh

Original post by Anonymous

She may have just wanted closure.

Reply 7

luvinthedark

Original post by Anonymous

The reason she’s my ex is because of something I did, and it wasn’t a really good reason at all.

what did you do?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by LovelyMrFox

She may have just wanted closure.

Closure by opening a door?

Reply 9

username2393237

She could just be feeling lonely after the lockdown. Did you cheat?

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by YaliaV

She could just be feeling lonely after the lockdown. Did you cheat?

No, I never cheated on her, it’s arguably a lot worse than that. Cheating’s horrible, we can agree, but what I did was extremely cowardly and selfish, but also incredibly stupid.

Reply 11

Foxehh

Original post by Anonymous

Closure by opening a door?

Closure wasnt the right word. I meant it more as she doesnt want to leave on bad terms.
Your overthinking this.

Reply 12

username2393237

Original post by Anonymous

No, I never cheated on her, it’s arguably a lot worse than that. Cheating’s horrible, we can agree, but what I did was extremely cowardly and selfish, but also incredibly stupid.

What sort of thing? You don’t have to say obviously.

Reply 13

giggylilly

Maybe she has finally moved on from you and has finally healed, so that's why she accepted the request. I think she is okay with being mates with you, anyways don't overthink it unless she reaches out to you

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by YaliaV

What sort of thing? You don’t have to say obviously.

A Jasper, the not-so-friendly ghost.

I genuinely thought it was the best idea for me back then to move on and forget her. I just didn’t think she liked me back... and to hear what she had to say, she probably did, quite a bit.

So I ended up in other relationships, not feeling 100% there. Thinking that I had forgotten about her, but then just being in complete denial.

It’s quite complicated.

Reply 15

Geraldthegoat

Maybe she’s thinking about u too and forgives u or wants to move forward after what happened in your previous relationship. Did she respond to your message ?

Move on.

Doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to get back together could just be that she now ready for friendship or just being acquaintances. Good luck though.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 18

999tigger

Prescribe him some lurve drugs.

Reply 19

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

Normally you think with your mind.
You are overthinking it and have all the factors there to drag it out.

She could be thinking anything and you give me her contact details I will ask her.

She could be bored.
She could feel sorry for you.
She might wnbat attention.
She might wnat to get back together.
She might just want tthe company as long as you stay on messenger.
She might wnat to get married and realises the errors of her ways.