I cheated without knowing

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Reply 80

black tea

Original post by nursingstudentuk

So are you saying it was his fault?

Reply 81

Morebalanation

Instead of making excuses be accountable for your actions,talking about you you accidentally cheated😂😂😂.

Reply 82

ANM775

Original post by nursingstudentuk

you think this is her fault? you are just so wrong, and what you are saying is hurtful. If anything, she is the wall in that scenario ^^
Its not like she was lying completely alone, then someone came up to her and she didnt bother to check it was her boyfriend, she led down with her boyfriend in the first place, then at some point there was a switch that she didnt notice. Every single time my boyfriend touches me am I supposed to turn around in the bed and check its him again and again? Why would she assume hed changed to a different person? Dont be so nasty

Edit: ok I get what you're saying. I dont think it is the guys fault either, it seems he asked and got consent. There was just a misunderstanding. Its not her fault either. Its no ones. The only lesson really to be learned is the dangers of alcohol and parties

you say everytime your bf touches you are you supposed to check?

If you are in your own house alone, have seen your bf in the last minute or so ...then no

if you are at a public party, have not seen your bf in a while, and then someone appears asks you for sex from behind...then HELL YES do you turn round to at least make sure the person asking to stick their penis in you is the actual boyfriend.

Reply 83

HDKara

Original post by Napp

Not exactly the basis for a good relationship if you lie about sleeping with strangers and just pretend it never happened. Especially if/when it comes out.

She told him so you guys don't need to tell her to tell him

Reply 84

Napp

Original post by HDKara

She told him so you guys don't need to tell her to tell him

I didnt tell her to do anything. I was replying to a different user.

Reply 85

Siberiaan

Story doesnt add up lol tf

Reply 86

Anonymous #12

I think the OP is only saying this because she has a boyfriend and she really knows she cheated either that or as some others said it's a troll

Reply 87

Anonymous #13

Original post by Anonymous

I think the OP is only saying this because she has a boyfriend and she really knows she cheated either that or as some others said it's a troll

the fact she hadn't told her bf for a year and then did the night after making this thread does kind of make me think the latter...

Reply 88

NurseCarol

Original post by ANM775

I know what you mean, but he was in bed with her, and she didnt realise it changed to be a different person :/ Just seems pointless guilt-tripping her for it now

Original post by black tea

So are you saying it was his fault?

no sorry, see my edit on my above comment, I obviously added it just a tad too late ^^

"Edit: ok I get what you're saying. I dont think it is the guys fault either, it seems he asked and got consent. There was just a misunderstanding. Its not her fault either. Its no ones. The only lesson really to be learned is the dangers of alcohol and parties"