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Failing to ejaculate

i'm male and when i have sex i don't ejaculate or climax. I have had sex on four occasions with four different girls and with about a 3 month break in between each one (all one night stands and always drunk.) so it is almost like i am loosing my virginity again each time. however i do also know that there is another problem which is harder to explain.

i am 18 years old now, but when i started ******* i was probably about 10 and being 10 years old know one had talked to me about the technique and i obviously hadn't seen it online and so when i was 10 what i was actually doing was essentially lieing down and grinding forward on my wrist. When i try to masturbate using the normal method it just does not do it for me whatsoever.

my current plan of action is to go a long time (2 weeks) without any kind of masturbation and then from there try using the normal method of masturbation to almost train myself at that and then once i have got used to that stop masturbation until after my next sexual experience so that by that time i am HORNY AF, thoughts?
Yes, prone masturbation. Look up about prone masturbation desensitisation and resetting the brain. Usually lack of SexEd which leads to this, a lot of kids discover it by accident and ruin their penis' sensitivity. In a lot of cases, patience can help recovery. You must stop this immediately. No "last fap"

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prone-masturbation
http://www.healthystrokes.com/pronechange.html
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Yes, prone masturbation. Look up about prone masturbation desensitisation and resetting the brain. Usually lack of SexEd which leads to this, a lot of kids discover it by accident and ruin their penis' sensitivity. In a lot of cases, patience can help recovery. You must stop this immediately. No "last fap"

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prone-masturbation
http://www.healthystrokes.com/pronechange.html

thank you
you will probably need more than 2 weeks.

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