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Having sex without kissing

When I have sex with my ex, we never have any mouth contact. He just put his penis in my vagina direct. Even when I meet a guy on a dating app, we never kiss, we just go behind the car and have direct sex without any mouth contact.
Do most people do that?

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Wtf ahhahahahah. If a guy doesn't kiss you first it seems quite crass in my opinion. The fact that he can't even be bothered to kiss you before getting straight into it is a bit rude lol
nope :/
That is very unusual I think. It sounds like most porn as well. I never get turned on unless there's kissing involved - it shows real emotional attraction in my mind.
Original post by Jahana
When I have sex with my ex, we never have any mouth contact. He just put his penis in my vagina direct. Even when I meet a guy on a dating app, we never kiss, we just go behind the car and have direct sex without any mouth contact.
Do most people do that?


do u prefer it that way?
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
do u prefer it that way?

No of course not. It’s just how it is and I don’t think they would want to
I mean surely if its happening a lot maybe it might be to do with your oral hygiene?
I've hooked up with my fair share of guys and I always start with kissing, it's part of the foreplay even if it's just a hookup. But that's just me, why don't you kiss them, do you not like it or do they not?
Reply 9
Yeah their just not interested in kissing. Just getting sex etc.
Reply 10
Original post by Anonymous
I've hooked up with my fair share of guys and I always start with kissing, it's part of the foreplay even if it's just a hookup. But that's just me, why don't you kiss them, do you not like it or do they not?

It could be that kissing doesn’t turn me on and I’m not use to it but I don’t ask them about it. They just don’t seem interested either
Original post by Jahana
Yeah their just not interested in kissing. Just getting sex etc.

find better boyfriends
Reply 12
Original post by black tea
find better boyfriends

Tbh. I’ve never been interested in kissing either so idk
If there's nothing romantic between you, probably not too unusual, but arrangements where there's nothing romantic between you aren't entirely usual in the first place.
Reply 14
Original post by Anonymous
I've hooked up with my fair share of guys and I always start with kissing, it's part of the foreplay even if it's just a hookup. But that's just me, why don't you kiss them, do you not like it or do they not?

I guess we both don’t, we’re not as romantic. We don’t talk about it much either. We don’t have that kissing vibe.
why do you go behind the car?
Reply 16
Original post by Jahana
When I have sex with my ex, we never have any mouth contact. He just put his penis in my vagina direct. Even when I meet a guy on a dating app, we never kiss, we just go behind the car and have direct sex without any mouth contact.
Do most people do that?

Do most prople have sex without kissing or have outdoor sex with random hook-ups?

Definitely no to both.
first of all
why are you shagging your ex?!
Original post by khadijaaaxxxx
first of all
why are you shagging your ex?!

We’re not together. We have that friends with benefits thing
Original post by Anonymous
We’re not together. We have that friends with benefits thing


That’s not really an answer...

And to answer your initial question, no that’s not what “most” people do.
If that’s what you like then fire away, if it’s not then think about why you’re having sex with people who aren’t bothering to find out what you like beforehand...

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