help me please

How far apart do you live and how old is this person?

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Reply 3

Foxehh

That was probably the right option. If hes upset over that its his own issue, you didnt do anything wrong.
When do you both plan to meet up?

Reply 4

OP

Original post by Kerzen

How apart do you live and how old is this person?

not too long and late teens

Reply 5

Bagarigak

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Original post by Kerzen

How apart do you live and how old is this person?

Actually, this is the most important thing to take in mind.

Reply 6

deadroseex

You did what you felt was right. That is such a good thing! You would have been stressed being in the relationship now & meeting him would defo be much more of an eye opner to see if you really do like this boy because people can be different in person. Do not feel terrible! I hope you okay xx

Reply 7

OP

Original post by LovelyMrFox

That was probably the right option. If hes upset over that its his own issue, you didnt do anything wrong.
When do you both plan to meet up?

soon hopefully but i’m scared about it i just don’t know if he will like me

Reply 8

OP

Original post by deadroseex

You did what you felt was right. That is such a good thing! You would have been stressed being in the relationship now & meeting him would defo be much more of an eye opner to see if you really do like this boy because people can be different in person. Do not feel terrible! I hope you okay xx

thank you for the advice xxxxx

Reply 9

Are you confident that this person is who he says he is?

Reply 10

Foxehh

Original post by rozzer090

soon hopefully but i’m scared about it i just don’t know if he will like me

He seems to like you a lot. Be yourself, nervousness is normal but dont let it overtake you.

Reply 11

OP

Original post by Kerzen

Are you confident that this person is who he says he is?

yeh i’ve seen a photo of him

Reply 12

Original post by rozzer090

yeh i’ve seen a photo of him

Here's a idea, could you two do a meeting on Zoom?

Reply 13

OP

Original post by Kerzen

Here's a idea, could you two do a meeting on Zoom?

yeh i could

Reply 14

Original post by rozzer090

yeh i could

To be honest, that would be the safer option in so many ways.

Could you say to him tomorrow that you think it would be fun to do a Zoom meet up and ask when he would be free?

Reply 15

OP

Original post by Kerzen

To be honest, that would be the safer option in so many ways.

Could you say to him tomorrow that you think it would be fun to do a Zoom meet up and ask when he would be free?

okay

Reply 16

Original post by rozzer090

okay

Let us know what he says.

If he presses for a meeting in person and refuses to Zoom, give some thought as to why that might be.

Reply 17

OP

Original post by Kerzen

Let us know what he says.

If he presses for a meeting in person and refuses to Zoom, give some thought as to why that might be.

i’ve seen his face on snapchat too but i will see if i have time tonorrrow

Reply 18

Geraldthegoat