How to go live with my boyfriend who lives all the way across the world

so my boyfriend lives in the Dominican Republic and i live in the US and he wants me to go live with him in the DR but i'm not sure how to even go about doing this because my mom doesn't even approve of him so i could use some good advice ( i'm 17 years old and new to this site)

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Reply 1

CartoonSoldier

how is the dominican republic "all the way across the world" from the USA lol. do you even know where it is? i know american georaphy is bad but come on

Reply 2

lexie112

Original post by CartoonSoldier

how is the dominican republic "all the way across the world" from the USA lol. do you even know where it is? i know american georaphy is bad but come on

lol my fault i'm very tired tonight

Reply 3

lexie112

Original post by lexie112

lol my fault i'm very tired tonight

anyways i need some advice on what to do

Reply 4

HoldThisL

Original post by CartoonSoldier

how is the dominican republic "all the way across the world" from the USA lol. do you even know where it is? i know american georaphy is bad but come on

im glad this is the first comment

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advice: mom probably right

Reply 5

lexie112

ya'll are the most rude people i have ever met

Reply 6

owlknightdragon

ok so are u sure u want to make such a life changing descision at such a young age of 17
are u sure u and ur boyfriend are at a point in ur relationship where u feel that u are ready to make that next step?
also speak to ur mom about why she thinks this
does she see u both as too young?

Reply 7

lexie112

i have spoke to my mom about him she just doesn't approve of him she really never told me why i'm 17 and mature and he's not young at all trust me

Reply 8

owlknightdragon

Original post by lexie112

i have spoke to my mom about him she just doesn't approve of him she really never told me why i'm 17 and mature and he's not young at all trust me

are u completely stable in ur relationship to make that move
also how old is this bf of urs?
talk to ur mom she may have a reason for her not wanting u to go

Reply 9

lexie112

yes we are very much stable and he's 19

Reply 10

owlknightdragon

Original post by lexie112

yes we are very much stable and he's 19

well arent u a mnor so u cant really move countries?

Reply 11

CartoonSoldier

Original post by owlknightdragon

are u completely stable in ur relationship to make that move
also how old is this bf of urs?
talk to ur mom she may have a reason for her not wanting u to go

lets be real, who's mum would let their 17 year old go live with a random guy in a different country hahaha
"she may have a reason for her not wanting u to go" no ****

Reply 12

lexie112

he's not random she's met him several times

Reply 13

lexie112

u can move with an adults legal consent or get emancipated or just leave on your own because it's my life and i;m live how i wanna live

Reply 14

owlknightdragon

Original post by lexie112

he's not random she's met him several times

"shes met him several times" why are u referring to urself in third person?

Reply 15

CartoonSoldier

Original post by owlknightdragon

"shes met him several times" why are u referring to urself in third person?

She's talking about her mum lmao. last time i checked, you cant be your own mum

Reply 16

lexie112

i'm just typing i'm not sitting here watching every ****ing word i say

Reply 17

Foxehh

Have you ever even met this guy? It really is not too wise of a decision to move in with someone before even meeting them in person..
Why doesnt your mum approve? Have you ever taken the time to ask her why? Why are you in such a rush to move in with him?