Sorry I'm just trying to ascertain what happened and ultimately I won't know until I hear from her I guess.
So I was with my partner, I was having a moody morning and left hers to go for a walk and clear my head. Got back to hers and she really cheered me up, got me out of a spiral.
Anyways we start fooling around and she's obviously trying to not make noise (which is very unlike her) I check in to see if she's ok a couple of times and she said yes, a few minutes later I ask if she wants to stop because she seemed cagey and she said yes. So we stop and she becomes really withdrawn, barely looking at me, nervous habits come out and I try to talk to her.
She says it's not what I did but I worry maybe I was being too pushy and she just went along with it.
The other possibility is, before we were fooling around she brought up how she's quite loud and I said yeah I know I like it I think it's sexy. She got quite bashful and obviously when we did start to fool around there was a concerted effort on her part to not make any noise.
Anyways once she got really cagey I asked if she wanted me to stay or leave and she asked me to leave so I did. I asked her to message me later if she can put in to words what made her feel that way as I hate leaving her in such a negative state.
I'm worried she won't take the initiative and message me about it. I'm wondering if waiting until the end of the day and then messaging her is ok or whether I should just give her space until she's ready to talk?