Name some 'undesirable' traits you have

I'll start.
-I don't like being asked twice about things.
-When, say I and another person make a mistake about something, I instantly assume it's their fault and I get angry at them (I don't show that I'm angry, I just feel it) when it was really my fault.
-I appear as quite unapproachable

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Reply 1

gtty123

I hate people who chew with their mouth open.

Reply 2

agnos987

Original post by gtty123

I hate people who chew with their mouth open.

omg same. It drives me crazzzyyyy

Reply 3

gtty123

Original post by Bbubble061

omg same. It drives me crazzzyyyy

It's stupid lol. They could finish chewing, but no. That doesn't exist for them.

Reply 4

gjd800

I am sharp tongued
Very stubborn
Unhelpfully self-critical

Reply 5

SuperiorPotato

Original post by Bbubble061

We're literally twins

Reply 6

nerual16

I hate people who have a go at you for not liking something. Like I’m sorry I hate tomatoes but you don’t need to eat them right in my face and say mmm yummy

Reply 7

username5326522

I don’t like talking and most of the time I want to keep quiet and to most ppl that’s undesirable.

Reply 8

Ciel.

i'm an impulsive slut.

Reply 9

historynerd47

- Apologising far too much and for everything (friends, family and even teachers have picked up on it)
- Being way too self-deprecating
- Prioritising academic work over everything

Reply 10

CoolCavy

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BPD but as much as people like to demonise us i dont think we are wholly undesireable. I am the most affectionate and perceptive person i know as a result and yes the extreme highs and lows are crap but society as a whole is better off with us whether they are willing to admit it or not.
I am a great friend to those whom i am loyal to, i would literally die in the place of some people if they were in danger.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 11

Rufus The Red

Original post by historynerd47

- Apologising far too much and for everything (friends, family and even teachers have picked up on it) [do you apologise to doors when you bump into them too?]
- Being way too self-deprecating [I would say I am but that would give me too much credit.]
- Prioritising academic work over everything

Those and: crippling introversion, pedantry and an inability to stop fiddling with my fingers.

Reply 12

historynerd47

Original post by Rufus the red

Those and: crippling introversion, pedantry and an inability to stop fiddling with my fingers.

Not to doors but whenever I knock anything over! And to my cat a lot, like if she is asleep on my bed and I have to move her a bit so I can get in, I feel absolutely awful :cry:

Relate to the introversion as well

Reply 13

Rufus The Red

Original post by historynerd47

Not to doors but whenever I knock anything over! And to my cat a lot, like if she is asleep on my bed and I have to move her a bit so I can get in, I feel absolutely awful :cry:

Relate to the introversion as well

I don't have a cat to feel sorry for but I have Rufus. :biggrin:

I also have to close my left hand curtain first and if a number doesn't feel right I've got to change it with stuff.

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Reply 14

username5347244

i absolutly hate people who try to be like me or copy me. idk it just gets on my nerves so bad.
i do not like small children (sometimes - you have to be special if i like you!)

Reply 15

Rufus The Red

Original post by sunny.side.up

i absolutly hate people who try to be like me or copy me. idk it just gets on my nerves so bad.
i do not like small children (sometimes - you have to be special if i like you!)

My strange sense of humour means that I am inimitable. :biggrin:

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Reply 16

username5414076

Hmmmm I can be quite much for ppl :tongue:

Reply 17

IanDangerously

I’m brutally honest and intolerant of snowflakes, whiners and two-faced people. Which isn’t a bad thing but its undesirable to some as they get their precious little feelings hurt occasionally. Although if they weren’t being an ******* to begin with it wouldn’t happen.

I’m also largely unapologetic when said people fail to man up and take criticism which probably doesn’t help!! :curious:

Reply 18

Eevee03

I am extremely pessimistic and that makes people think i'm too depressing when in fact my pessimistic side is only thanks to my mental health.
I have a 'undesirable' body, people try to compliment me yet they can't find anything to say. Not even my own parents compliment me.
I hate talking to strangers which makes people hate me due to my lack of proper social skills.