You sound exactly just like me, but I am older, the thing is women don't have these fetishes like guys, OK there may be a very tiny few who like rough sex, being tied up or whipped, but it's very rare, A guy having any kind of fetish will almost always put a girl off, because this is how the media and upbringing trains them, any guy who has a fetish is a dangerous weirdo, as is any guy on his own. All the woman wants is someone with lots of friends and to to take care of her and normal sex. Your fetish will isolate you from males and females, I'm speaking from experience, sorry to tell you this but it's how it is. I wouldn't dare tell any one about my fetishes. There is a reason why single men with no friends stay single, it's not a good situation for the upbringing of a child, and that is a woman's instinct, to find a good guy, good with people and able to support a family to produce a healthy child. I have a lot to give but no one is interested, I think I understand my foot fetish was the result of my upbringing, I was physically abused as a child by my dad, my parents favoured my sister and she knew that and deliberately got me told off so she could play on her own with out me in her way, also it affected my relations with male friends, My dad didn't like me having friends around and on the few occasions they did come he made them feel uneasy, my dad was controlling and nasty to my mum as well, All of this combined with the fact I spent a lot of time between my mums legs travelling in a motor cycle side car whilst my sister stayed on top I think made me feel inferior to women and that's why I am like I am today.