What does this mean? am i being selfish?

i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, his father very sadly was in the hospital very sick for about a week last week (he’s home now and they’re waiting on results for scans but he’s no longer in pain or immediate danger) my boyfriend took this very hard and with the lockdown I couldn’t go to see him to try and take his mind off of it or listen to him or be whatever he needed me to be. He took major steps back from me, ignoring me, asking for space, he hadn’t said i love you in a week now. and i know that’s silly because it’s only been a week however we used to say it everyday multiple times a day, and it’s gone to never. i do everything he wants from me, i’ve left him alone and only replied when he’s text me, i pray for his health and his families health as religion is a big thing for him and is becoming a big thing for me. i just don’t know what to do. he says there’s just a lot going on, which i’m doing my best to understand, however i’m just not happy at the moment. all i want is for him to tell me he loves me or that he misses me. he said ‘i have love for you’ instead of i love you, which was a bit scary for me.

am i being selfish? i think i might be.

Ye that is kind of selfish and needy given the situation. Let him take care of his dad. You're just gonna add to his stress levels if you nag him about this. He might end up resenting you for it.

Dudes next to his dying dad in hospital and you're like, 'do you miss me? '

You have to be in a good mood to tell people you love them as well. He's obviously not in a good mood at the moment.

Honestly relax and dont worry about it. Obviously he will be going thru a rough patch now with dad and all so as a girlfriend you should be there to love and support him. I know you miss the fact that he hasnt said I love you but its only becuase rn he is going thru so much and has nothing but worry on his mind

lmfaoooo that’s mean i’m obviously not telling him about this. he doesn’t know that i feel this way, and i’d never tell him that because i don’t want him to resent me. i’ve literally left him alone for a week and didn’t speak to him at all on our anniversary which is unheard of since i have attachment anxiety (which i’m getting therapy for).