Dating a bisexual girl - advice...

Me and this girl have started dating the last couple of weeks, we have really hit it off and I'm really happy with how things are going.

We knew each other before [she serves in a restaurant I go in very regularly] but on our first date, she told a story which basically encouraged me to ask about her sexuality. When I did, I was told she was bisexual.

I've only ever been with straight partners myself so it's a bit new to me...I want this to work, but I keep getting sort of jealous and insecure feelings and wondering if she prefers women to men and if she will feel an urge if she misses sleeping with women if we begin a relationship.

Does anyone have any advice? I really want to move past feeling like this.

I mean, it is no different to dating a straight partner. Sexuality doesn't influence someone's likelihood of cheating, surely?

double the oppertunities?

It'll be no different to your relationships with straight partners - you can trust her to be faithful just as much as you trust anyone, and she has chosen to date you so she knows what she's signing up for.

When my ex-boyfriend found out I was bi he instantly told me he thought he'd never be good enough and I'd go and look for something more eventually, and essentially told me I'd cheat on him... The fact he thought that little of my character really sent me down a dark spiral, so please be careful in what you say while you process this new thing Conversation is healthy, blame and unfounded criticism is not

If someone has morals, they will not seek out opportunities.

I mean, it is no different to dating a straight partner. Sexuality doesn't influence someone's likelihood of cheating, surely?

opportunities might seek out them...

And? You think people aren't capable of resisting temptation?

I'm just saying the more opportunities that someone is bombarded with the more chances of them having a moment of weakness if you catch my drift...

I'm just saying the more opportunities that someone is bombarded with the more chances of them having a moment of weakness if you catch my drift...

Not really. I certainly can't think of a situation that would make me cheat on my partner.

At least half of people who cheat, don't set out to cheat. They find themselves in a situation where temptation is presented to them (clubbing or something), and perhaps the man is persistent .........and then she cheats

Me and this girl have started dating the last couple of weeks, we have really hit it off and I'm really happy with how things are going.

We knew each other before [she serves in a restaurant I go in very regularly] but on our first date, she told a story which basically encouraged me to ask about her sexuality. When I did, I was told she was bisexual.

I've only ever been with straight partners myself so it's a bit new to me...I want this to work, but I keep getting sort of jealous and insecure feelings and wondering if she prefers women to men and if she will feel an urge if she misses sleeping with women if we begin a relationship.

Does anyone have any advice? I really want to move past feeling like this.

Well, not everyone is that easily tempted.

i've seen a married woman cheat with my friend

and my other friends (one male and one female) cheated with each other on a night out, when in the past i have heard them condem cheating.

cheating is a lot more common that you think.

around half of people will cheat on a partner at least once during the course of their lifetimes...

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around half of people will cheat on a partner at least once during the course of their lifetimes...