Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 6months now, and he recently started smoking a lot of weed. It's been like this for over 2 months now, and i think his mom coming back into the picture is a reason for it. She is super pressuring when she asks him to smoke weed WITH her, and it is super weird. I told him I didn't like it, and it makes me super unhappy. And I'm not even against it fully, me and him have smoked weed together a couple of times to have fun, but like we would go months without it. It was just extremely rare. I'm against him doing it so much because I wanted to be with someone who is mostly sober, and didn't drink a lot or smoke, because I grew up with my mom on drugs and her boyfriend's drinking, and I always told myself when I was older it would be different, and now it feels like its the same way again, and I'll have to live with it all over again. He knows about this too, and i've tried to get it through to him, he said he is going to stop smoking so much, but I'm not sure. And I don't know if I'm asking him for too much, or if it's dumb I should even me upset about it, or if I should leave him if he doesn't actually stop smoking it so much. I love him alot, and I really wanted to be with him. It feels like as soon as his mom came back everything changed..