Guys, what are your views on feminist girls?

I personally identify as a true feminist, one who believes in gender equality for both men and women. I know that in some ways men are more privileged than women, and in some ways women are more privileged that men, to put it simply.

I know that there are a lot of extreme “feminists” nowadays who are in fact anti-men. In my eyes, they are not truly advocating for gender equality and therefore aren’t feminists, and are known as feminazis instead. But a lot of people have confused these terms and view any girl who classes as a feminist as a man-hating, evil girl, even though I’d like to think that’s not true. I’ve seen many men saying they don’t wanna date a girl who classes as a feminist, which kind of upsets me, I hope they are just saying that because their ideas on the movement are skewed and they believe we all have the extreme views, in which case I understand why they would think that, but if not and they unferstand it’s simply wanting gender equality, it’s sad to think some men would want a woman who sees herself as inferior to him. So, just wondering would guys date a woman who is a feminist (not a feminazi)?

in what ways are women more privileged than men?

I personally identify as a true feminist, one who believes in gender equality for both men and women. I know that in some ways men are more privileged than women, and in some ways women are more privileged that men, to put it simply.

I know that there are a lot of extreme “feminists” nowadays who are in fact anti-men. In my eyes, they are not truly advocating for gender equality and therefore aren’t feminists, and are known as feminazis instead. But a lot of people have confused these terms and view any girl who classes as a feminist as a man-hating, evil girl, even though I’d like to think that’s not true. I’ve seen many men saying they don’t wanna date a girl who classes as a feminist, which kind of upsets me, I hope they are just saying that because their ideas on the movement are skewed and they believe we all have the extreme views, in which case I understand why they would think that, but if not and they unferstand it’s simply wanting gender equality, it’s sad to think some men would want a woman who sees herself as inferior to him. So, just wondering would guys date a woman who is a feminist (not a feminazi)?

in what ways are women more privileged than men?

in what ways are women more privileged than men?

I am a gay man, so...

I just don't really like feminists in general because many are anti-male.

But if you're pro-male, then that's amazing!

But I would still not date a feminist, even a male feminist.

You shouldn't worry about what other people think of you or your views - stay true to yourself. That being said, it's absolutely a no from me.

Don’t worry, I’m not changing my views.

May I ask why you wouldn’t date one though, keeping in mind feminists aren’t anti-men?

Not a guy, but if a girl I wanted to date isn't a feminist I'm not gonna put it on me to help her work through her internalized misogyny. If a guy you want to date wants you to "tone down the feminism" or something like that, stay the f*** away from him. If a dude can't be educated enough to understand what feminism is and isn't, he doesn't deserve you.

Some of these replies are disappointing

Then again

Conservative ppl should go with conservative ppl

Modern ppl should go with modern ppl

There’s no point is dating a guy who u find cute but bleeive feminism as an ideology is bad and believes in traditional roles.

There’s plenty of guys out there who don’t want a maid/sex slave or someone pretending to be inferior in order to feel better and feed into the whole men are superior thing

Just as there are women who enjoy being submissive and staying at home of can be bad *****es who stay at home

Point is there’s so many diff types of ppl, even traditional men who aren’t that sexist but just generally very into the family dynamic

Find someone and see how ur morals lay out with eajcother

I personally identify as a true feminist, one who believes in gender equality for both men and women. I know that in some ways men are more privileged than women, and in some ways women are more privileged that men, to put it simply.

I know that there are a lot of extreme “feminists” nowadays who are in fact anti-men. In my eyes, they are not truly advocating for gender equality and therefore aren’t feminists, and are known as feminazis instead. But a lot of people have confused these terms and view any girl who classes as a feminist as a man-hating, evil girl, even though I’d like to think that’s not true. I’ve seen many men saying they don’t wanna date a girl who classes as a feminist, which kind of upsets me, I hope they are just saying that because their ideas on the movement are skewed and they believe we all have the extreme views, in which case I understand why they would think that, but if not and they unferstand it’s simply wanting gender equality, it’s sad to think some men would want a woman who sees herself as inferior to him. So, just wondering would guys date a woman who is a feminist (not a feminazi)?

Could custody be a way? I'm not too sure tbh (just asking btw).

I just say gender equality to keep things simple.

I personally identify as a true feminist, one who believes in gender equality for both men and women. I know that in some ways men are more privileged than women, and in some ways women are more privileged that men, to put it simply.

I know that there are a lot of extreme “feminists” nowadays who are in fact anti-men. In my eyes, they are not truly advocating for gender equality and therefore aren’t feminists, and are known as feminazis instead. But a lot of people have confused these terms and view any girl who classes as a feminist as a man-hating, evil girl, even though I’d like to think that’s not true. I’ve seen many men saying they don’t wanna date a girl who classes as a feminist, which kind of upsets me, I hope they are just saying that because their ideas on the movement are skewed and they believe we all have the extreme views, in which case I understand why they would think that, but if not and they unferstand it’s simply wanting gender equality, it’s sad to think some men would want a woman who sees herself as inferior to him. So, just wondering would guys date a woman who is a feminist (not a feminazi)?

part of feminism is recognizing that men are disadvantaged in some areas but still due to negative stereotyping of women from a patriarchal society.
(eg. "women have to be nurturing and have to want kids" is a stereotype, but women are prioritized in custody disagreements)