Have u considered that u may not yet have developed the ppl reading skills to appreciate the difference between the narcissist and the self-confident?
There is overlap. There is no clear line btwn these two characteristics but there are clearly people who r unheathily narcissistic and those who are just a lil' arrogant coz they r self-confident.
Yes most girls do find narcissists attractive. This is bcoz in the typical world, in which girls want validation and need boys to approach them to initiate any type of rel friendship or otherwise, narcissists manage much better... they offer spontaneous comms, they do no angst over the meaning of every exchange, they do not allow small slights to deflect them. Their self-image is maintained in the face of negging which in some ways safeguards them from self-doubt and questioning everything they do or pondering their self-worth.
The self-confident do not parse text or phone comms or lack of comms or micoanalyze social behaviors like frequency of chat etc. The difference is that the self-confident are not socially autistic and can relate to ppl well even though they don't take every small thing onboard.
Master is immensely self-confident with v good reasons - the dude has survived assault with weapons, rents cars in countries with alphabets that he can't read at first and drives into the nite, has lived in difft countries and gone through residency, has worked and lived in very diverse environments etc. So he radiates a strong self-assurance. He can be a lil' arrogant sometimes but that comes wth the turf. But he's not a narcissist...he is not concerned about how he looks or projects, he's very task-oriented, he helps ppl in various constructive ways like helping them file harassment complaints in v bad, abusive sits at work, he can talk to women his age about life stuff or student girls about college with ease, he listens v well and empathizes and overall he's a doer not a worrier. Yes these are very attractive qualities. Any person would feel very safe and cared for with him...especially women. He's more like the Lazenby Bond than the Connery one lol!