I'm unecessarily insecure

....I'm a bit confused on why the bloke in a morph suit has been mentioned. But as far as telling you that he got a boner looking at someone else. Why. Wow. Weird. I think he's a prat.

I know I'm overthinking and overreacting, I just need some help to stop it.

Boyfriend is at uni, I'm doing a levels. They're having a party tonight (in their little bubble) and he told me that he saw a guy in a morph suit and a girl gave him a boner.

I don't know why this is making me feel insecure, maybe it's because I know that he'll look at other girls - I know he won't be able to help it and I accept that there are attractive girls out there.

Can someone please give me a word of advice of how to stop this? I'm feeling really stupid but it's really getting to me.

....I'm a bit confused on why the bloke in a morph suit has been mentioned. But as far as telling you that he got a boner looking at someone else. Why. Wow. Weird. I think he's a prat.

I think you read it as I did originally haha. I was going to say the same, but re-reading it I think OP means that the guy in the morph suit was the one who got the boner, and you could tell because of the tight material.

I think you read it as I did originally haha. I was going to say the same, but re-reading it I think OP means that the guy in the morph suit was the one who got the boner, and you could tell because of the tight material.

Oh no, he said that a different guy got a boner from this girl. If that wAs the case, I wouldn't been more angry and dissapointed in him than insecure...thanks tho

I don't believe you can really stop insecurities as I think everyone deals with it. Even people you think may 'have it all' most likely deal with it to a certain extent. I do know however, you can definitely make this less severe. Try talking to your boyfriend about everything and build more trust. It may be embarrassing, but it will probably help. You could also try doing some positive affirmations and just know that you are good enough no matter what anyone else says.

....if that's the case I'm still confused on why the guy in a morph suit was mentioned 😂

...well. then it gets worse for you. The way I read it before simply means your story telling is horrible lol. But now that you explained it, yes you come across pathetically insecure and paranoid for being suspicious of your boyfriend due to another guy's boner...

Thank you thank you thank you for the advice!!

Whoops, I should've worded it more carefully haha! Sadly enough I can't edit it because I'm anon Thank you so much for the reassurance...it's helped a lot! Yeah I've avoided looking at who he follows and who's pictures he's liked as I know it would drive me crazy as well!

Ah it's okay! It's not beyond understanding or anything aha.

It's no problem, you're definitely not alone with this.

I know I'm overthinking and overreacting, I just need some help to stop it.

Boyfriend is at uni, I'm doing a levels. They're having a party tonight (in their little bubble) and he told me that he saw a guy in a morph suit and a girl gave him a boner.

I don't know why this is making me feel insecure, maybe it's because I know that he'll look at other girls - I know he won't be able to help it and I accept that there are attractive girls out there.

Can someone please give me a word of advice of how to stop this? I'm feeling really stupid but it's really getting to me.

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I don't believe you can really stop insecurities as I think everyone deals with it. Even people you think may 'have it all' most likely deal with it to a certain extent. I do know however, you can definitely make this less severe. Try talking to your boyfriend about everything and build more trust. It may be embarrassing, but it will probably help. You could also try doing some positive affirmations and just know that you are good enough no matter what anyone else says.

I see youre hard at it again being a saint

I mean its understandable to feel a lil insecure because he is in a situation where he is getting wild and drunk and around girls his age who are completely down for parties etc. BUT, and this is a big BUT, he chose you over any other girl and that he is reporting even the little things shows that he wants to make you laugh and smile and that he cares. I mean the fact that he remembered such a small detail in a place where he is meant to be having a blast shows his ass aint leaving you. Besides when you two both in uni he wont havve the chance to look the other way

I see you're hard at it again being a saint.