Hi, I really need some help and advice on this so I would appreciate as many replies as possible please. I just started university this term and moved into my uni halls 5 weeks ago with my new flatmates of us 4 girls. Me and the girls were new to each other before we came so we had a group chat where we talked to each other before moving into uni. As we were new to each other there is no past friendship history of the 3 flatmates that have been ditching and ignoring me. Before we all came to uni the girls were excited to meet me and were very welcoming and started suggesting things to do together. But then one week after coming to uni, they just forgot about the things they suggested we do together so i reminded them and they would just make excuses and never get around to it. I was very sociable in the group chat before we had when we were getting to know each-other before coming to uni and since I moved into halls, I have made every effort and went to great lengths to make an exceptional impression of myself, I was being outgoing and always initiated conversations they could relate to, I was being a good flatmate and a good friend. Basically doing everything to earn their friendship. I also treated them to free cinema tickets on my birthday, let them eat some stuff I made whenever they asked if they can eat it I never said no to them whenever they asked if they can eat food of mine they liked even offering it myself, I offered to help them with things, the list goes on of things I do for them to get them to like me. Despite me doing all this I just mentioned, they would make plans behind my back with just the three of them without me wouldn't invite me, they would do things together without me, constantly ignore me pretending i am not there, not include me in conversations and would form a friendship group with them 3 and other people to make me feel left out. I constantly hear them gossiping and laughing together when i am alone in my room and they would hang out in each others rooms and not ask me if I want to join. I have been making effort to organise things to do together even paying for all of it myself giving them free food and they don't even care, not even a thank you. I never asked for anything in return but as repayment they would ditch me and ignore me. We decided to buy a second hand Wii together for playing on it together each of us paying 20 pound i paid mine. But now they hardly play on it and the other day played without me without asking me if i want to play so wasting my money. They just come to me if they need something or want to use my stuff. Developing a friendship with my flatmates was really important to me. Now because of them ditching me and ignoring me I have no friends at uni. We have online classes for the first term so its like impossible making friends from my course. All this ditching and feeling left out by being ignored after spending money/time/effort on them is making me feel depressed everyday. Because of this i can't sleep at night as i stay up thinking about this. And it is also disturbing my productivity because of feeling depressed. One time I accidentally ate one my my flatmates chocolate. So I immediately bought her a whole new packet of the same ones without her asking me to. I even offered to make cookies for her and bought her an apology card promising it won't happen again with the chocs. I also offered her my snacks to make up for it. Despite this my flatmates are ignoring me and not speaking to me. If I treat them the same way they have been treating me even the slightest they would get mad. I just feel so angry, frustrated and upset. I just want to lock myself in the bathroom and cry. Sorry for the long rant and post.