this is going to be a long ramble because my brain is dead at this point.
my health has been crap and i've been turned to nothing but dust now. i didn't realise how much home has been affecting me until i've opened up to my chemistry teacher and now i just want to get lost from the face of this planet. i don't know where to start so i'll start off with my parents. my family is disabled. father blind. brother blind. sister blind. its my job as a carer to look after them whether its reading mails, doing some random tasks, teach them, whatsoever. but they're so bitter towards me and they always criticise me and i always end up crying and its been going on for years and my mum endures the same abuse but she tells me to stay strong because they're in more pain without their eyesight. my family wants me to be a doctor. eye surgeon. my whole life has been me helping my entire family, and i never knew how other people lived their lives. going out with friends, having your own dreams. being aware of yourself. nothing. all i've ever done were got good grades because my chemistry teacher has said i've always been intelligent. to do any medicine-related stuff in Uni i have to get 3 As/A*s in any three chosen topics... as if this wasn't hard enough i've been mentally torn. i've had manipulative friends, friends who berated me and teased me all the time and i just had to sit there smiling. i've had social services make me feel so ashamed of myself, my sister tried killing herself. my brother will slowly become completely blind (he's not blind enough to not attend school but goes to those special school for disabilities), so much guilt has swallowed me. its my responsibility to worry for 3 people and i'm just bloody 16 for gods sake. i got pushed to do sciences by my mother because we are financially unstable and live in a very small flat which doesn't suit the needs of my blind family. she is also physically disabled and when she complains of back problems it breaks my heart. people chose subjects they personally enjoyed... i've never knew what i ever enjoyed because my entire focus in life has been my family and all this crappy abuse and nothing else. my mother never listens to me, she believes she has it much worse than "all mothers" and she makes me feel so guilty about myself. i want to change subjects in college now because i can't deal with this mental torture but they said its too late. like honestly what the actual hell i can catch up even if i hated my subjects i got better grades than 70% of the people without trying so clearly i have the work ethic to do another subject. my father is an evil manipulator who just stirs trouble and has little social contact apart from my helping him, reminding them i am "their child" and always says "if you do medicine i'll give you 20k" like what the actual bloody flipping hell and i've just been mentally recovering from corona and lockdown as well. my mother wanted me to do medicine from a young bloody age. so she made me do all sorts of volunteering and sports which made me experience and develop high levels of anxiety, fear and cowardice. i can't do this anymore. i am from the UK for context. my mother always says when i get good grades "there are people who also work when they are 16 and get their driver's license" like is she trying to make me feel even worse about myself. its hard enough attending lessons. i've been bunking and my school knows that. if i fail then what. blind people can't get jobs. my dad can't get a job my sister won't get a job. lord knows what will happen to my brother. my mother will guilt trip me saying she can't get a job because i've reported her to social services once for physical abuse. they can't do anything.
why did i even bother getting good grades in high school it just made me feel worse but it doesn't feel like its my own life at all
what the hell am i supposed to do now???
is it all over for me? i can't take any of this responsibility can anyone even relate to any of this? am i just being a coward and idiot?