Girlfriend gained 5 stone over the year. What do I do?

And true it could be due to quarantine.

Maybe I do need to be honest but I dont know how I can without sounding rude which is why I didnt want to say anything. I dont know if she wants to but I dont want to pressure her into doing something she doesnt want and yeah the weight issue is really pulling me off being physically attracted to her. I love everything else about her though its just the weight issue with even my friends saying I should end it. And true it could be due to quarantine.

Sounds like you need to quarantine that fridge mate..

Sounds like you need to quarantine that fridge mate..

5 stone is a serious amount in less than a year, if she started at 10 st and has gained half her weight in less than a year I’d advise going to a Dr. There might be more going on than just a lockdown weight gain.

Sounds like you need to quarantine that fridge mate..

Dude if u luv her and everything else is amazing then ur first plan is to help her return to health. U will need to make an effort to integrate urself into the plan too like 30 mins of zumba or watever and that way u can share the emotional burden. It is very hard to raise this issue without giving offense frankly watever u do, there r gonna be tears and stress the question is, will she be convinced that u want to be with her and work through this time with her?

Well if I say to her something like that I already know she will get offended and her loud friends will probably insult me to her or something tbh. So yeah I've got no idea on what to do. My friends are begging for me to end it though but Idk man.

Look I get that you’re no longer physically attracted to your girlfriend but please stop bringing up “your mates are telling you to dump her”. It’s your decision what you do, stop letting their thoughts influence you. It’s got nothing to do with them.

The fact that they keep saying it though is just getting to my head that's why. But I wanted to know the opinions of people here because I believe that I'll make a better decision from the responses I get here than my mates in most cases.

Only immature ppl pay any regard to wat their "mates" tell them they should do...or internet strangers... u must decide for urself but u sound like a more reasonable dude than many on TSR. I hope u can find a way forwards.

Just remember...when she returns to hot n' smoking in the future, u don't want to be self-exiled to the shelf....

I think you already know this, but just to confirm:

Do not raise the subject of her weight.

Sooner or later she will raise the subject. When she does, that's your chance to have a discussion with her about it - from her point of view and not from yours.
IE you don't say "I don't find you physically attractive any more." But you can say "How do you feel about your weight?" in response to her saying something about her weight.

Also make it clear that you can and will support her in her efforts to get to a healthier weight. That's assuming that you're willing to take on some or all of the food shopping and cooking for her. And that she's not one of those excessively faddy eaters.
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