I hate my hips

Are you happy with your health, weight and muscle appearance?
You can do some workouts to help tone the muscles in and around your hips & core.
But there is nothing you can do to alter your bone structure.

Many guys will be looks attracted, while plenty of others will be more personality orientated.
Some looks attracted guys may have a preference for a specific physical type that involves the hourglass look, while others guys will not.

We look at personality more so no it isnt.

My waist is small and curvy, but then my hips are square and straight and it looks so horrible. I wish I could have more of an hourglass figure.

What can I do to make my hips curvier? And is it a turn off to guys?

The hourglass figure is a way to make young girls obsessed with their bodies. It causes so many girls to feel inferior to their peers and is quite frankly not worth it. And all of this effort for what? To get approval from some next guy who might not even be serious!!! If he wants u for ur personality, he’ll keep u for life. And surely long term relationships are of better quality and should be valued. Unfortunately, that’s not how most guys see it cuz they just want to ‘beat and delete’ 🤦🏻*♂️

I think the reason you can’t accept ur hips is because of media depictions of what a girl ‘should look like’. I’d say screw all of that, take care of yourself make sure you’re healthy. If it’s a lot of fat then defo do workouts. And you mentioned you’ve tried but it’s gotta b consistent and targeted with the right diet. Patience is key.

I’m a guy btw, and when I hear of girls feeling uncomfortable/depressed because they don’t fit the sexualised idea of what a woman should look like - it really annoys me. At the end of the day, it’s your choice - succumb to this idea of body image or take care of urself and prioritise ur own sanity.

Dk if that was helpful. Hope it was.

My waist is small and curvy, but then my hips are square and straight and it looks so horrible. I wish I could have more of an hourglass figure.

What can I do to make my hips curvier? And is it a turn off to guys?

The hourglass figure is a way to make young girls obsessed with their bodies. It causes so many girls to feel inferior to their peers and is quite frankly not worth it. And all of this effort for what? To get approval from some next guy who might not even be serious!!! If he wants u for ur personality, he’ll keep u for life. And surely long term relationships are of better quality and should be valued. Unfortunately, that’s not how most guys see it cuz they just want to ‘beat and delete’ 🤦🏻*♂️

I think the reason you can’t accept ur hips is because of media depictions of what a girl ‘should look like’. I’d say screw all of that, take care of yourself make sure you’re healthy. If it’s a lot of fat then defo do workouts. And you mentioned you’ve tried but it’s gotta b consistent and targeted with the right diet. Patience is key.

I’m a guy btw, and when I hear of girls feeling uncomfortable/depressed because they don’t fit the sexualised idea of what a woman should look like - it really annoys me. At the end of the day, it’s your choice - succumb to this idea of body image or take care of urself and prioritise ur own sanity.

Dk if that was helpful. Hope it was.

Supine side leg raises!!! 3sets of 10 on each side. Really helps hips develop. Obviously nothing can change anatomy but helps certainly!

The hourglass figure is a way to make young girls obsessed with their bodies. It causes so many girls to feel inferior to their peers and is quite frankly not worth it. And all of this effort for what? To get approval from some next guy who might not even be serious!!! If he wants u for ur personality, he’ll keep u for life. And surely long term relationships are of better quality and should be valued. Unfortunately, that’s not how most guys see it cuz they just want to ‘beat and delete’ 🤦🏻*♂️

I think the reason you can’t accept ur hips is because of media depictions of what a girl ‘should look like’. I’d say screw all of that, take care of yourself make sure you’re healthy. If it’s a lot of fat then defo do workouts. And you mentioned you’ve tried but it’s gotta b consistent and targeted with the right diet. Patience is key.

I’m a guy btw, and when I hear of girls feeling uncomfortable/depressed because they don’t fit the sexualised idea of what a woman should look like - it really annoys me. At the end of the day, it’s your choice - succumb to this idea of body image or take care of urself and prioritise ur own sanity.

Dk if that was helpful. Hope it was.

Thank you, this definitely helped a lot. It’s true that the main reason I want an hourglass figure is bc that’s what men like and I’ve realised that isn’t right. I would accept a man the way he is, so a guy who’s worth it will accept me the way I am. My body is already healthy and I am active so that’s all I need. I appreciate this a lot

Nws, as a Muslim I'm highly critical of the sexualisation of women in the media/social media because my religion teaches against reducing the value of a woman to just being a sexual object. In fact, we're at such a point where most guys only see women in that capacity - so I totally understand why you started this thread.

A good book to read on this (if you're into it) plz plz read 'Beauty Sick' by Renee Engeln.

Here's the Amazon link: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Beauty-Sick-Cultural-Obsession-Appearance/dp/0062469770

They're doing it on their own mate.
There is no such thing as an average woman. There are women worth admiration and there are worthless sluts. Same as are decent men and *******s, or geniuses and idiots.

But I think those sluts come about because they are trying to fulfil the image of what a ‘sexy woman’ should look like. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It seems to me, the less you wear - the ‘hotter’ a girl is. It shouldn’t b having a big ass, breasts etc. Is what makes a girl more attractive. Then again when certain guys want to write off a girl they’ll call her a slut for showing too much. There’s no winning for a girl with this game.