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Am I ugly

I’m starting to feel really unattractive as no one wants to me friends with me. Do I scare people off? Here’s what I normally look like on a day go day basis (removed bc I’m self conscious sorry!)

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Reply 1

EstelleA

No I’d say you’re really pretty!

Reply 2

username5490332

Original post by EstelleA

No I’d say you’re really pretty!

Thank you! Do I seem unapproachable?

Reply 3

Anonymously.y

Original post by lilbabypenguin

Thank you! Do I seem unapproachable?

You don’t, you’re really pretty

Reply 4

Icosagon

You are beautiful!

I would say approachability doesn’t depend on looks, but gestures and body language...

Reply 5

username5490332

Original post by summerberry19

You are beautiful!

I would say approachability doesn’t depend on looks, but gestures and body language...

Ahhh so flattered right now. That would make sense then. I’m a very awkward person, and make no body contact with anyone else 😬

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Nope, but I do think there may be a better choice of glasses out there for you, maybe smaller with thinner rims. i'm by no means an expert tho, just a thought

Reply 7

username5490332

Well I was just wondering if my looks make me appear like a horrible person and unapproachable, not to be rated. If people won’t talk to me in the first place because I seem scary then they can never form an opinion of what I’m like :/

Reply 8

Icosagon

Original post by lilbabypenguin

Ahhh so flattered right now. That would make sense then. I’m a very awkward person, and make no body contact with anyone else 😬

No worries :smile:

Don’t worry - I’m really awkward too.

Reply 9

username5490332

Original post by Anonymous

Nope, but I do think there may be a better choice of glasses out there for you, maybe smaller with thinner rims. i'm by no means an expert tho, just a thought

I don’t normally wear my glasses lol. Ik they’re awful they’re the £20 ones from specsavers. Getting contacts soon :smile:

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

Perhaps without that strong brow, that I'm assuming you applied with make-up? In my opinion, a natural look would suit you very well :h:

Apart from that, you look great, I love your hair!

Reply 11

username5490332

Yeah title was probably misleading. Just a bit more catchy really idk. Maybe it’s just the fact that people in high school aren’t very good at socialising with new people, idk. And I’m only assuming I can have them, my appointment is in 3 weeks!

Reply 12

username5490332

I don’t know what that means. But basically I can’t see far away. My prescription is -1 and -1.75 (eyes are different lol) so can manage okay without my glasses but need them for school or watching tv clearly etc.

Reply 13

Ghostlady

Your a pretty lady, and you just havent found your people yet. Keep socialising in as many ways as you can (sorry know its hard as its online, but can be done :smile:

) Join group chats, society groups( if your at uni), group chats via social media fb, on here, hobby groups :smile:

Reply 14

username5490332

Original post by Anonymous

Perhaps without that strong brow, that I'm assuming you applied with make-up? In my opinion, a natural look would suit you very well :h:

Apart from that, you look great, I love your hair!

Yeah haha the eyebrow pencil is a bit dark, was the only one available in tesco’s due to covid haha. I have very thin/non existent natural eyebrows so I think it’s best I keep with a less natural brow, purely because doing a natural brow is impossible sadly. And thank you, that’s my natural hair, I think it’s a complete mess 😂

Reply 15

Mesopotamian…

Original post by lilbabypenguin

Mine are -5.75 and -5.50 :cry:

And you look approachable OP, it’s probably the body language as someone mentioned above :smile:

Reply 16

username5490332

Original post by Ghostlady

Your a pretty lady, and you just havent found your people yet. Keep socialising in as many ways as you can (sorry know its hard as its online, but can be done :smile:

) Join group chats, society groups( if your at uni), group chats via social media fb, on here, hobby groups :smile:

Yeah that’s what I’ve been trying to do. I’m currently in sixth form and I’m a new student. Makes it much harder as everyone else already has their friendship groups. Going online has helped but I do crave some real friends who I can meet, ya know?