how to move on from a failed talking stage

What happened?

a lot happened really over a few days but it all kicked off when i asked him if he wanted to watch anime with me. he said yes, he would but then asked me to wait an hour for him so he could watch anime by himself, even though i was the one who asked in the first place. after a few minutes of bickering he said he didn’t want a relationship at all and we didn’t speak since

Is it long distance? Do you guys know each other or have mutual friends? How did you meet?

Just asking so I can analyse and tell you advice

yea it was long distance, we had no mutual friends and we met through yubo

Ohhh okay I get it now.

The best thing to do is block and pretend it didn’t exist. Online long distance relationships do not go well, especially since you are 17 and he’s 19. I met my online ex through a virtual chatting the same age as you + never met and it’s not pleasant since it’s long distance it’s easier for them cheat and do stuff behind your back.

Your already saying how he’s not being considerate when you asked him to watch anime and he just ignored and did it himself. Although it may be hard since it sounds your attached to him I think you’d rather save yourself from being mentally drained.

yea this all my friends have been telling me, it’s just hard to get unattached bc i’ve never liked anyone like i liked him, but i’ll block him to ease the pain

You’ll find someone who you will love and those feelings will disappear, it’s just because you’re getting into the dating world but since you get attached easily then it’ll be easy for guys to manipulate you so you gotta be wary.

The best thing to do is block, they’ll probably get bored and might contact you again but I recommend you to stay strong and don’t give in. They might take it for advantage that you haven’t liked anyone before so they know you’ll give in easier. The potential stress that he may give you is not worth and you do not want it to affect your education or job if you do agree to be in a relationship with him. If your friends have told you the same thing then I recommend you to listen to them.

i’ve been repeating the same thing to myself constantly.
thank you sm🥺💕

a lot happened really over a few days but it all kicked off when i asked him if he wanted to watch anime with me. he said yes, he would but then asked me to wait an hour for him so he could watch anime by himself, even though i was the one who asked in the first place. after a few minutes of bickering he said he didn’t want a relationship at all and we didn’t speak since

Just be grateful that it ended earlier before you invested loads of emotions when you met, trust me you care 1000x more when you have met the person in real life so be glad you weren’t exposed to that.