Boyfriend won&#x27;t go down on me

abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it

Reply 2

Bobchain97

Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him

Reply 3

Just as extra information, I have gone down on him a few times before and they went well. I pretty much only do it because I know it pleases him and he likes it. However his situation on going down on me is entirely different. We've decided that I won't go down on him if he won't go down on me which he's fine with.

Reply 4

Original post by Bobchain97

Honestly I would say you guys actually try it but make sure you go into it slowly and show that you are supporting and are constantly reassuring him

I considered doing that, but once he gets 'down there', he shuts off completely and won't lick once so we change to cuddling or smt. I can't force him to do it or I feel guilty. Do you think this situation would be worth breaking up over?

Reply 5

I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...

Are you male or female OP?

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous

abt 2-4 times a day for like a week show him gorey things and he might get used to it

Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down

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Original post by GabiAbi84

I’m a bit confused how watching a video about someone dying correlates to going down on your partner tbh...

Are you male or femal OP?

Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous

Sounds like a plan. However he's fine with gore in movies and stuff, it's just more realistic things that makes him shut down

oh so idk what u could do

Reply 9

Tbh I prefer using my mouth than hand on him. He's fine with using his hands on me, but it's just that I think I'll actually be able to orgasm if his tongue is involved, you get me?

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Original post by Anonymous

Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.

dose he havea weak stomach

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Original post by Anonymous

Sorry my explanation wasn't clear. I'm female. My bf faints at things like videos about someone dying aka he gets squeamish, so he's worried he'll faint if he goes down on me.

So he’s squeamish about going down on you?

Reply 12

MidgetFever

I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:

Reply 13

Original post by GabiAbi84

So he’s squeamish about going down on you?

Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him :frown:

. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.

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Original post by MidgetFever

I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:

Thank you!
I thought I was the only one confused about why they were related.

Reply 15

Original post by MidgetFever

I don't understand how he's equated gore with going down on you... :dontknow:

I think it's more realistic than things like murder in movies?? I'm not fully sure either...

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Original post by Anonymous

Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him :frown:

. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.

Then that’s his choice.
You can’t force him to do something he obviously doesn’t want to do-nor should you.
Continuing to force the issue is a major no-no.

Up to you whether it’s a dealbreaker or not.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 17

jas149

Original post by Anonymous

Yep, he's been telling me he'd do it for months but whenever he gets an opportunity he seems to get nervous, bless him :frown:

. I told him that he can get accustomed by giving it one lick and leaving it but he refuses.

Yeah, it's clear that this is something that grosses him out. Not everyone enjoys doing it. You both are probably just sexually incompatible. I really don't see how you could convince him to do it. If he said no multiple times then I guess you both need to just move on from it

Reply 18

not to be rude or any thing but he seems like a total pussy

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