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trouble with penetration

I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf for nine months. Before seeing him I'd never put anything in my vagina like tampons etc. I find being fingered painful if it's two and managable if it's one. I also cannot seem to use tampons. We tried having sex and he found it difficult to penetrate me. I can't tell if its vaginismus or I just need to relax?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf for nine months. Before seeing him I'd never put anything in my vagina like tampons etc. I find being fingered painful if it's two and managable if it's one. I also cannot seem to use tampons. We tried having sex and he found it difficult to penetrate me. I can't tell if its vaginismus or I just need to relax?

Sounds like vaginismus because of the extremity (eg. can't use tampons). I'd ask a GP or get dilators :smile:

I'm 17 too and I've had trouble with this occasionally, but if it's a constant thing I'd see to it. It's not easy, but you can work through it I'm sure!
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