Was I molested or sexually harassed?

Hi everyone, I hope you're all doing well.

When I was around 8/9 years old, my family visited my auntie's house and we stayed over for a couple of days.

One day I was upstairs and one of my aunt's sons was in his room studying (he was a medical student at the time) and he called me over to his room, and being the naive idiot I was, I went inside and he had me sat on his bed. He then opens his laptop and puts it on a porn website (bear in mind I was a kid and had no idea what sex and porn was) and I remember feeling absolutely baffled and confused at what he was watching.
He was making comments saying things like "you and that girl have the same boobs" and things like that which I found really random and weird.

Another thing he did was he would hug me from behind and he would place his hand on my breast while he hugged me from behind (as if he was trying to find an excuse to feel my boobs? Idk). At the time I didn't know this was wrong but I do remember feeling like this was odd for sure.

Obviously, now that I'm 21 years old, I know that his actions were wrong, but Idk if this was classed as molestation or sexual harassment? Or maybe it's neither. I don't know. What do you guys think?
My cousin is now a doctor and is married with 2 kids. I feel disgusting every time I think about what he did

Hi everyone, I hope you're all doing well.

When I was around 8/9 years old, my family visited my auntie's house and we stayed over for a couple of days.

One day I was upstairs and one of my aunt's sons was in his room studying (he was a medical student at the time) and he called me over to his room, and being the naive idiot I was, I went inside and he had me sat on his bed. He then opens his laptop and puts it on a porn website (bear in mind I was a kid and had no idea what sex and porn was) and I remember feeling absolutely baffled and confused at what he was watching.
He was making comments saying things like "you and that girl have the same boobs" and things like that which I found really random and weird.

Another thing he did was he would hug me from behind and he would place his hand on my breast while he hugged me from behind (as if he was trying to find an excuse to feel my boobs? Idk). At the time I didn't know this was wrong but I do remember feeling like this was odd for sure.

Obviously, now that I'm 21 years old, I know that his actions were wrong, but Idk if this was classed as molestation or sexual harassment? Or maybe it's neither. I don't know. What do you guys think?
My cousin is now a doctor and is married with 2 kids. I feel disgusting every time I think about what he did

They call me Pepsi
You like Jin?
Is that gay?
Probably
Can't say! ( BAEPSAE )

you had boobs at 9 years old?

He does not deserve the title of a doctor

They call me Pepsi
You like Jin?
Is that gay?
Probably
Can't say! ( BAEPSAE )

tf has bts got to do with anything?

Yes it was.

I wonder how old he was at the time himself... adult or minor (teen?).

Not that that makes it excusable, not matter the age it's still wrong. There was no consent: he jus put it on and showed you... it is not appropriate. And yes, as you say that weird hug from behind to feel your boob.

It left you confused at the time but not doubt he got some sort of gratification from it.

Also, if you're feeling uncomfortable with these things now... well I am not sure what to suggest but if it plays on your mind consider speaking to a counsellor with a specialism in this area.

As a teen I went through a 'traumatic event'... though it didn't happen to me and was something completely different... at the time I didn't think I needed help but it's really affected me for years afterwards. I think I need to talk about it somehow...