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Staff keep asking "what's up"?

It's really frustrating me now, I keep saying I am fine but they just keep coming to my room and asking what's up. I don't know why they are doing it like they won't leave me alone. I tried telling them they don't need to keep asking but the past week they have been asking.

My parents recently have split up and the college have been aware but ever since they keep asking what's up. I'm honestly not bothered about my parents divorcing and I have told them that but they still ask. They ask in front of everyone as well so it makes it more annoying, one staff member even mentioned about my parents splitting up and I had to tell them after lesson to not tell the class. People are going to think I'm depressed if staff keep asking what's up and there's nothing up with me I'm fine and I honestly couldn't care less about my parents splitting up. I don't know why they keep asking me what's up. The first and 2nd time was fine but then they kept asking and now it's just annoying.

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Reply 1

Rainbow_girl

Is this who i think it is?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Rainbow_girl

Is this who i think it is?

No, I don't know who you are

oh, sorry.

Original post by Rainbow_girl

oh, sorry.

It's cool

Reply 5

Tw1x

Wait, what? I'm confused - staff keep coming to your room? Are you at a private school?

don't ask them that.

Original post by Rainbow_girl

don't ask them that.

Aimed at me?

yes.

Original post by Tw1x

Wait, what? I'm confused - staff keep coming to your room? Are you at a private school?

To my classroom

Reply 10

Tw1x

Original post by Rainbow_girl

yes.

If you quoted me it might have made more sense. Why not?

Reply 11

Rainbow_girl

because that is their personal business.

Reply 12

Tw1x

🤣🤣 Ha ok. Well I asked, I forgot your era is full of snowflakes

Reply 13

Tw1x

Original post by Anonymous

To my classroom

Have you said it makes you feel uncomfortable? Is that definitely the reason you think they are checking up on you?

Reply 14

Foxehh

They likely just want to make sure you're doing alright, parents divorcing can be very hard on some students. If it's making you uncomfortable, tell them so and that you're reach out if you come to need anything.