Hi,
To cut a long story short, I've had this flatmate who I've liked since freshers (so about a year and a half). We've always been very close/best friends, but when I hinted I liked her last year, she said she didn't see me like that and never would so I kind of put the idea out of my head.
However, this term (ever since around February), we've grown even closer. When I'm in my room on my own, she always comes and knocks and sits down, wanting to spend a lot of alone time with me. When we've got drunk as a house, we've ended up having sex twice which was initiated by her. I know it might be only thought of as drunk sex, but I know for a fact last year (or even a few months ago) that never would have happened.
Now, when we're home, she's started messaging me almost every day and the conversations will go on for hours. This isn't something that's ever happened on this level before and it was usually always me who initiated it as I liked her of course.
She still talks about other guys openly, being on Tinder and we joke about things, but sometimes I think she says it just to gauge my reaction?
So, do you think she likes me and it's worth risking it, or is she just toying with me?
Thanks!