Why?

I’ve been wondering why I put myself through so much for my bf but would never do so much for a friend? Like I don’t care to have friends. To me there’s no point in friends. They are such pointless attachments. Why do I place so much value on my romantic relationship?
Thanks

I guess most people value a romantic relationship more than a friend. That said it isn’t necessarily right or reasonable to sacrifice a lot for a romantic partner. It’s good that you’re thinking about this. It can be easy to get stuck in a state of doing whatever’s needed to prop a relationship up, including making unfair sacrifices and compromising where it would be best not to. (To be clear I’m not saying that’s the place you’re in now - but the kind of thinking you’re doing should help it not come to that.)

I'd say it's actually the opposite assuming ur like 16 the chances of your romantic relationship really lasting and getting somewhere are pretty slim and can cause unnecessary drama and pain due to the nature of the relationship whereas if u find good friends they'll have ur back definitely less drama and they could last

I'd say it's actually the opposite assuming ur like 16 the chances of your romantic relationship really lasting and getting somewhere are pretty slim and can cause unnecessary drama and pain due to the nature of the relationship whereas if u find good friends they'll have ur back definitely less drama and they could last

But also I don’t agree bc friends are never there for you in times of need.