Living as an ugly man.

Why are you single? Why do you think you won’t live until 40? Why do you think you’re ugly?

There's plenty of ugly broads in the UK as well, who might be in the same situation as you.

I'm a very ugly man. 35 years single and counting... Lets see if I can make 40!

*Crys inside*

But being single it elite. You get so much freedom to do whatever. Why do you want a relationship so bad?

I know wtf who wants a relationship really anyway.

Apart from the affection of another human being, someone to talk to, someone to share things with and put your resources together to get a great place to live together, go on great holidays with and experience new things, someone to enjoy pleasures of the flesh with, someone to maybe even have a family with.

You know... rather than just doing everything alone all the time and only really caring about money because otherwise all your experiences are just for yourself and therefore don't really matter.

Wait are you the OP?

Why are you single? Why do you think you won’t live until 40? Why do you think you’re ugly?

I don't mean I'm going to off myself. I'm saying I wonder if I can make it to 40 having never been in a relationship as if it is a good thing, as a joke. It of course is not a good thing... not at all.

I think I'm ugly because I have very bad facial and body proportions, more so the face than the body for sure, body isn't all that terrible. I have also never had interest from women, even though I have tried, they just don't like me. The fact I'm not some masculine guy, fairly timid naturally, can't grow facial hair, don't have a strong jaw, strong physique, look very young but not in a good way, all that. Just all adds to the ugliness.


Good point. No. Considering how ugly I am I'm pretty sure I'm undead, that would explain it.


In some ways I do love myself. Looks wise I certainly don't, but I still try to look good. Unfortunately loving yourself doesn't give you a magic ticket to a relationship.

being realistic you can rule out some airhead bimbo suddenly getting the hots for you. however, 90% of women appreciate men for their personal qualities; you do not need to look like a steroid bunny to find romance.

And you probably will never get any interest from women the way you go. I am sure you could live up to 90 and still being single as when you was 35. If humans lived up to 300 your situation would have been the same.

For a starter go to the gym.
For all sort of reasons.

I was once told by a girl that you need to be fit for all sorts of reasons, good health, sex, etc, etc. She had a good point, OP needs to know that if he lacks stamina it can show in the bedroom. I'm not overweight but I'm not that muscly either. So gym is a good option, muscles can attract women but he'll need to go 4-5 times a week for at least 1-2 hours or so for at least a good year before differences start showing.

Other options are available, so long as you can max out in a particular area then attracting a woman becomes a lot easier from what I've seen. I don't max out in anything at the moment, neither does OP. If he got pretty wealthy he would attract women, materialistic women most likely but women all the same. If he was good socially he would attract women, etc, etc. Maxing out in something isn't easy or possible in done areas for some people otherwise we'd all do it.

I think OP being timid is a big minus for him as women avoid introverted guys like the plague. I think OP would be best just trying to enjoy what he can out of life and having a laugh doing whatever he chooses to do. He could find an area that draws he's interest an really get involved in it, enjoy being engrossed in it and try to improve his life that way.